oh oh i hate that i'm posting in this topic, but AIBU in giving my cleaner a bit of a rollicking?

[Tutter]

ds and i were upstairs just now and i heard something downstairs - came down to find our cleaner had let herself in (she has a key) to drop off some ironing

she normally brings ironing back when she comes to clean - she's due to clean tomorrow

if i'd been out, the alarm would have been on, and it's one of those that alerts the police who come straight to the house. 3 strikes and you're out, so setting it off is not something i want to happen

also just hate the fact that she didn't call to ask if it was ok for her to come around - she just waltzed in

she cleaned on monday and didn't lock the door she uses, so it was unlocked for 48hrs til i noticed it

i mentioned this to her just now (as well as saying i'd rather she didn't just let herslef in) and she appeared completely unbothered and didn't apologise

grrr

if it wasn't so blardy hard to find a decent cleaner around here i'd let her go

YANBU. She should have either told you what time you could expect her to call around, or called to say she was on her way. She should also have locked your door. As long as she honours those simple, reasonable requests in future, no problem.

Notsomysteriousmouse I am not fretting, her perceived loneliness is not your problem, it was just an observation

I think you are being unreasonable and you are being unrealistic too.