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for think this is an odd choice?(hospital food related)

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Samcro · 16/06/2018 10:56

so dh was in hospital , he was overnight them home next day. so we were glad he was fed.
but one of the choices was so random
Shepherds pie, with a choice of mashed potato, or baked potato.
now we got a bit confused...
shepherds pie has mash. so did they mean mince with a choice of mash or baked?
he came home so never had the meal.
any one know?

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JurassicBark · 16/06/2018 15:28

They don't have a gluten free menu in hospitals - they have a menu with gluten free options on. I find this really hard to believe when potatoes are gluten free, frozen veg is gluten free, yoghurt, jelly, salads, baked beans, cheese, curry and rice (usually), roast dinner without the gravy, omelettes etc. I find it hard to believe that the cook admitted there was nothing in the kitchen that would fit the bill, unless of course fitting the bill meant refusing the hospital provided gluten free options as they wanted what they normally ate.

They honestly do not let people with gluten intolerances, or any food allergies starve.

PerfectlySymmetricalButtocks · 16/06/2018 15:31

2 meals that stuck in my mind because I loved them (sorry, I can't remember any weird meals) were cauliflower cheese bubble and squeak, I often make extra cauliflower cheese so I can make it now, and baked beans on toast, which cured chronic constipation before giving birth. The MW thought the poo was blocking DS2's way which was why he was so late! 😂

adviceonthepox · 16/06/2018 15:38

My daughter was 3 and in hospital recovering from pneumonia. The food trolley came and parents collect the meals. Every day you would order a meal for the next day but it was just a case of first come first choice. This day was particularly bad there was a choice of chicken slices in gravy/finshfingers/chicken nuggets/cheese potato pie(mash with cheese on top) mash roast potatoes carrot and peas and baked beans. The chicken was undercooked and still pink(they didn't serve to anyone). Fish fingers and chicken nuggets went quickly all that was left was mash with mash with cheese and gravy. I asked for the kitchens to provide more options to cook more fishfingers/nuggets/veg and was told they couldn't do that. I ended up ringing a relative to bring food in.

Bellabutterfly2016 · 16/06/2018 15:58

I had 3 stints in hospital while I was pregnant last time and the food combination was a bit odd to say the least

Like at home for breakfast I generally always have some sort of fruit; there was NO fruit (which is bizarre trying to promote healthy eating!!) so I had my partner bring it in for me then they only had white bread which I don't like and cereal (I'm not a fan) and awful longlife milk so I lived on cereal bars, and fruit brought in from home. There was also no facilities to make toast so it was just bread.

Lunch - safest option was a jacket potatoe which they offered every day so I had that with the salad pot, boring after a while but nice and tasty and healthy

Tea - a random selection of stuff but the worst, the girl in the bed next to me had sweet and sour chicken - with pasta!!!! It was meant to come with rice and apparently they'd run out and a samosa instead of a spring roll so a mix of Chinese & Indian with Italian!!!

Pregnant again and hoping to be able to avoid as many trips to hospital this time round. I just don't understand why it's so awful. I know they must be on a tight budget but even so surely they could come up with something better than that!! Xx

thelastredwinegum · 16/06/2018 16:27

I think I've ordered gammon & rice with no veg before - maybe strange but I'm happy with it and I was also low res diet, then been discharged. Apologies to whoever got that.

Remember really looking forward to lunch one day, then having a lunchtime scope and missing it. There's not a lot I like on our trust menu, so I was devastated. They did bring me some toast though and it was actually hot with it being made especially for me.

JurassicBark · 16/06/2018 16:33

Here's one of the GF options from the rotating menu (I stole this image, I will try and find the photos I took).

for think this is an odd choice?(hospital food related)
thelastredwinegum · 16/06/2018 16:41

Very jealous of those who get offered chips, we get mash (can't eat texture issues Blush or skin on wedges (no good for low res diet).

BeyondThePage · 16/06/2018 16:49

When I last stayed in Cheltenham hospital the food was lush!

Celeriac and cumin soup
salmon with sweet potato mash and green beans and broccoli (with or without parsley sauce)
yoghurt and a banana

was so nice and fresh and tasty AND COOKED BY SOMEONE ELSE!

Bellabutterfly2016 · 16/06/2018 17:08

@BeyondThePage
That sounds absolutely gorgeous!!!

It does seem to vary from NHS Trust to
trust as to what people get but also probably on the kitchen facilities at each of the hospitals as I'm sure that'll determine what can be prepared and kept hot etc....

I'm pregnant again and I'll be going armed with snacks this time and getting people to bring stuff in for me! Unless they've greatly improved from 3 years ago!!!!!!

drinkyourmilk · 16/06/2018 17:17

I kicked up a fuss when in hospital as they don't cater very well for diabetics.
It was bread cereal or low fat yoghurt for breakfast.
So carbs and sugar then. Both of which send fasting bloods sky high.
Ridiculous. I couldn't even get a full fat yogurt or an apple

Mumofaskinnyone · 16/06/2018 17:21

I had one meal in hospital after ds. It was a school canteen type arrangement. I was unable to identify any of the main courses on offer so I took a banana and a yoghurt and ran away before someone tried to make me eat a main course.

Caribou58 · 16/06/2018 17:36

When my mum was in hospital (regularly, as she was terminally ill for a year) I always timed my visits to be there for either lunch or tea (Note to southerners: dinner), so that I could ensure she was eating and intervene if she didn't get what she'd ordered. There were often some weird combinations as others have indicated, but what annoyed me most was how often she did not get what she ordered at teatime and was expected to take something she did not want/could not eat.

Bearing in mind she was seriously ill, you'd think they'd want to make sure she got what she knew she might eat, wouldn't you? I had to trundle off down the cafe or shop (and it was a seriously long walk) no end of times to try to find something she could feasibly eat.

CormoranStrike · 16/06/2018 17:38

My dd has oral surgery in a maxillofacial unit (where they should know better) and couldn’t eat anything hard, with lumps or with sharp edges for six weeks.

She was limited to mash and gravy for her entire stay.

bridgetosomewhere · 16/06/2018 18:22

I’ve been in three times for sections and ill baby so around 2 weeks in total.

The food in our hospital was great and the nurses were so nice I didn’t want to come home after my sections.

I was glad to get home with poorly baby but even so, I did enjoy my three meals a day!

Samcro · 16/06/2018 18:42

Im so glad i started this its been interesting seeing what other strange things are offered.
We have been lucky and not spent much time in hospital.
I do remember ds not being fed when he was suddenly kept in.
The one time i was in for a few days i was just happy to be able to eat.

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Vinorosso74 · 16/06/2018 18:57

When I was in after breaking my arm a number of years ago the veggie meals were ok. When I had a DD about 3 years later not so good. I discovered the Asian vegetarian meals were the most appetising so went for them. However, one HCA said I couldn't have that as I was breastfeeding. Lunchtime the next day there was no Asian veg meal for me so she had clearly changed it to a standard veggie thing which was awful. I was offered a halal meal (not veggie) as an alternative. Had I been Asian I don't think she would have changed my choice. Luckily I went home that afternoon.

sueelleker · 16/06/2018 19:06

CanaBanana, in my experience you usually get whatever someone who's gone home had ordered.

PerfectlySymmetricalButtocks · 16/06/2018 19:13

I must ask DS1 and DM if they've had any weird hospital food combinations.

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bigarse1 · 16/06/2018 19:32

for the person saying that getting allergies dealt with is easy here is my experience. top London hospital with ill twins, many allergies that the hospital had previously diagnosed. told to ring dietitian before we came in to arrange meals, specialist milk etc. rand 5 times no one got back to us. got there and eventually a dietitian got to us and basically said the only foods the hospital provided that they could eat were roast chicken, jacket potato and mince. there were in there for 10 days and no breakfast was ever provided and lunch and tea every day was mince or chicken or jacket potato. dietician did step in and argue when they would only give them half a potato each as it was apparently their limit, she explained that may well be the case but not if it was the only thing a child was going to eat that day!
the previous time they had no food ordered, none cooked and after surgery when he needed to eat it took them an hour to cook and then an hour to cool down (nope never understood that).
the bizarre thing is these are children who have massive food issues and majorly needed to eat and the hospital didn't help foodwise at all. I had to trail round London with 2 ill children to get food

FuckingWaffleDoggy · 16/06/2018 20:14

When I was last in the one day I was well enough to eat and not nbm I chose a pasta bake, you were then supposed to choose from 2 groups of sides, 1 from each of carbs then veg. As carbs was the main I didn't choose any extra carbs but did tick 2 from the veg section. I though maybe I won't actually get both but would have been happy with either or. I got neither! Just an a4 letter explaining I'd ordered wrongly and how to order in future and a tiny less than toddler sized portion of congealed pasta bake.

SaltyPeanut · 16/06/2018 20:19

I was in hospital for 12 hours under observation before signing myself out. I was given no water, 1 tiny cup of cold tea and offered a "choice" of ham and cheese pie with mash or sliced ham with cheese sauce and mash. That's the same fucking thing with and without pastry.

Cheese in hot things and/or sauce form literally makes me vomit and considering my previously undiagnosed high BP was at severe crisis levels, I'm not sure all that salt on top of violent puking would have been a good idea.

They were the only two options so I don't know where it left patients with a dairy allergy, vegetarians, vegans or with religious objections to eating pork.

MarieVanGoethem · 16/06/2018 20:30

My local hospital have always been pretty abysmal at feeding me (things not helped by bullying culture - of patients - amongst staff on ward I had misfortune to have multiple admissions on: so in food terms, things like refusing to contact dietitian; refusing to contact catering about missing meals; refusing to confirm my ongoing admission [so no more food was bought, so I had no protein with my meals when recovering from my second major surgery within a fortnight...]; deliberately ordering me food I was unable to eat; haranguing me about my vegetarianism...) but I'm hoping that they've improved in the last 5 years or so since I last experienced their, er, hospitality. Am now clutching at all the wood within reach. Hello Fate, no, no, no tempting of you here. It's a big (Inner) London teaching hospital in an area with a diverse population, so no idea how/why they struggle so much with the idea of a range of menus &/or just ensuring that dietitian-set menus are done properly Hmm

Hospital Trust that manages most of my care (also local, just not walking-distance!) is so SO much better. They do struggle a bit if I come in as an emergency or even if I've not been there in the morning to make my choices for the day, but they work something out. Generally they'll make me some toast with jam & provide me with some fruit on the ward if I appear outside mealtimes/when there's no way to get anything else. Depending on the time of day, they'll try to get catering to send up vegan meals for the next meals of the day; & if I'll be in for more than a day or two there are other concerns (there usually are just because I'm underweight due to GI issues) they'll contact the dietitians & one of them will come & see me to create a meal-plan for my admission. That means basically means creating a week-long menu, using everything the hospital kitchens have available that I can eat. I have occasionally ended up with some random things despite the meal plan though - apparently there are a few catering staff who get overwhelmed by the urge to freestyle it. And/or think every meal is Wednesday lunchtime. TBF they do also have times things run out - sometimes they'll just leave it; & sometimes someone Takes The Initiative & looks at the plan to see what else I can have & will swap something in. I'm also allowed to bring in dairy-free margarine - that I'll have to label with my name, the ward name, & my bed number - & they'll keep it in the ward fridge for me.

The latter hospital have multiple menus available - there are vegetarian options on the standard menu; there's a soft foods menu (which is what the PP whose DD was under maxfacs should have been given, there are so SO many patients who are soft foods only that it's a hospital basic - I really hope you complained @CormoranStrike); a vegan menu; a halal menu; a kosher menu... I just went to look, and the Trust's new policy is that meals are now chosen no sooner than 2 hours before mealtimes. (Obviously that won't work if you have to have a meal plan, but...) Actually, the update means they've changed a few things since I spent vastly too much of 2015 there again, no tempting Fate, look, planned admission coming, will try it then, see & it looks really good. (Still can't quite believe I've had 2.5y with only OP hospital care. So. Much. The. Best. Thing.). Am sure there will still be times people end up with weird random meals. But hopefully it'll happen less...

PerfectlySymmetricalButtocks · 16/06/2018 20:36

That's another thing, I was given a menu when I was nbm! Confused

CormoranStrike · 16/06/2018 20:39

She was only in a couple of nights so, no, no complaints, just a desperate desire to get home.