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A CF parking on my drive!

83 replies

Meganj95 · 15/06/2018 20:30

Soooo I've seen all the threads about CF's and their cars and today I'm here to share mine 🤣
So I moved into a new house last week. It's a townhouse with a drive for one car underneath (think garage without a door underneath the house). Different people seem to think they're entitled to my driveway. I've been saying at my mums 50/50 as we have a young baby and the house needs refurbing. So probably 3 out of the 5 days We've been here I come over in the morning and there is a white car parked in the drive. Couldn't figure out who it was til my cousin was over and saw him getting into his car (after being parked on my drive all night til 11am!) and confronted him. He lives in the flats across the road and down a bit. This morning I came over and someone different was in he space but sat in his car so told him to move. Once I'd parked I saw the white car coming in looking to park in my space again (it's sort of a cul-de-sac type thing) but went on to go in someone else space as I was in mine. These spaces are exclusive to each house and it is included in our rent. What would you do?

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Onlyjoinedforthisthread · 15/06/2018 22:44

Next time they do it put some drawing pins behind each wheel

DollyDayScream · 15/06/2018 22:48

You need to find a way of blocking in the offending car for at least 24hrs.

Pinkyblinder · 15/06/2018 22:49

@SimonBridges

OP said it she has a house with a driveway underneath it. So who would think it was okay for all and sundry to park under someone else's house?

sockunicorn · 15/06/2018 22:52

i think we need to create a vigilante group. We could go round the country. Sometimes lifting cars and other times blocking them in. We need some sort of Bat signal in the sky to alert us all to CFery. And a name.

BewareOfDragons · 15/06/2018 22:53

The gall! And there are more than one trying to park in your space?!

MyKingdomForBrie · 15/06/2018 22:53

Not obvious?!? It’s underneath the house how the frick is that not obvious?!?

Definitely park them in next time.

KeepServingTheDrinks · 15/06/2018 22:58

Cool looking house

Slightlyperturbedowlagain · 15/06/2018 23:01

Awesome diagram Smile what is it with people parking in other people’s drives today?! Drop a box of very sharp tacks on the drive accidentally? May not stop them parking there but will cause loads of problems..

Petalflowers · 15/06/2018 23:02

Fab diagram.

Funkyferret · 15/06/2018 23:05

We had this problem. Not on a driveway but on our private parking bay in the street (which had the house number painted on it). We could never catch who was doing it so . . . we stole a couple of parking cones from nearby works (I know, bad, unacceptable), popped them in the space and taped a couple of card index things to them saying something along the lines of "Naughty. No. Not your space. CCTV installed (it wasn't) Off you jog". Worked a treat.

Eatmycheese · 15/06/2018 23:07

Can’t you have it clamped or towed?

Or better still start a bonfire on the drive immediately behind it

Sophisticatedsarcasm · 15/06/2018 23:08

I have something similar, we live next to a small retail unit and the parking facitilies seem to deter people that can’t park by giving them a fine so now people have started parking in the road next to it across my drive and garage and some even 9n the drive, several time my DP has come home to find some random person parked on it and had to tell them to move. Several times he’s had someone say I’ll only be a few mins whilst the mrs in co-op. We have a dropped curb so no one shouLd be park8ng there full stop. The cheek of some people. The other day my mum went out to weed the drive and some random guy was on their washing his car, Mum told him it was a private drive and he continued washing his car and left 10 minutes later 😖

Dobby1sAFreeElf · 15/06/2018 23:12

Penguin bollards or blocking in. Blocking in is more fun for us but more likely for confrontation.

itsbritneybiatch · 15/06/2018 23:38

But we still need a diagram of whatever your decision is! If he does it again

Sammyham · 15/06/2018 23:56

Fit a chain across the space so they can't park, unfortunately it'll cost you but will surely solve the problem/ let them know how rude they are being in the time being.

As PP said, tacks/ nails etc under the tyres next time they do this, they don't want to be reasonable then why should you? When their tyres go they only have themselves to blame

FastWindow · 16/06/2018 00:02

I've got a ginormous red van going spare for three days, available for annoying reciprocal blocking in - can I be of help?

Wolfiefan · 16/06/2018 00:04

Get a skip delivered. Tell them you want it for a month! Grin

steff13 · 16/06/2018 00:07

All these responses to parking threads saying ‘have it towed’. By whom? The special MN squad also monitoring 101?

A tow truck company. Certainly you have to truck companies there. Or, if you're car gets stranded alongside the road does it just have to stay there forever?

busybarbara · 16/06/2018 00:07

Put milk and vinegar in a spray bottle and spray it gently over the vehicle. It won't damage it so you can't be done for criminal damage but it will curdle and stink to high heaven

steff13 · 16/06/2018 00:11

Ugh, your

OP said it she has a house with a driveway underneath it. So who would think it was okay for all and sundry to park under someone else's house?

Also, this. It's like if I left my garage door open when I went to the grocery, and someone decided to park in it while I was gone. OP's space is basically like a garage without a door.

Meganj95 · 16/06/2018 01:01

Haha I am going back to my mums tomorrow afternoon so when I get back I will update on who is in the driveway - he has already been confronted about parking there by my cousin so if he's got the cheek to park there again then I'll block him in til he can knock on my door and explain himself! Thanks for my diagram compliments guys I did my best 😂

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FeistyOldBat · 16/06/2018 01:56

If you can't persuade people to be reasonable, be bolshy. This is how you do it, it worked for me, twice, in two different homes. The first time my neighbour took no notice and I was eventually paid over £1,200 in parking charges and legal fees; the second time the threat was enough to stop the trespass.

Put up a sign that say Private property. No parking. Trespassers charged £xxx per trespass.

Photograph each CF parking in your space each time, recording the date and time, for billing purposes. For each vehicle send a form V888 to the DVLA (fee £2.50) to find out who the registered keeper of the vehicle is. You have to send a copy of the photo of the vehicle parked on your property with the form.

After a given period of parking, say four weeks, send CF a bill for your parking charges, telling him/her that if the bill isn't paid after two weeks, you'll sue the bastard, and mean it. If it's not specifically mentioned in your rental agreement, search your Council's website for parking charges and penalties. If they list a figure for a penalty for parking in a space where a resident pays for a parking space, that's the amount of your charge per trespass. Where I live that amount is £50.

Once you have judgment against the CF this will automatically go onto his/her credit record, you don't have to do anything for that. It stays there for (I think) seven years after the debt has been paid. If the CF is a property owner you have a further advantage because you can guarantee to get your money eventually, via an equitable charge on their property. The money owed to you will become payable the next time the property owner tries to remortgage, or sell, the property and their solicitor will pay it automatically, she has no choice in that. Until then it carries simple interest at 8% per day, charged annually.

When referring to your parking charge in any sign, bill or correspondence, make sure you call it that, it's unlawful for a private person to call the charge a 'penalty' or 'fine' as that implies you have a statutory authority which you don't; you're simply sending a bill for the receipt of a benefit to which the CF is not entitled.

Yes, this is tedious and costs a few pounds; whether it's worth it or not only you can decide, and why. I'm retired, have time to myself, and am thoroughly sick of the contemptible way we elderly, and disabled, and ordinary working class people tax payers or not, have been treated by this Tory government and the way that attitude has filtered out into the general population.

I'm a disabled retired single lady who can't drive any more, and was seen as vulnerable by two very similar specimens of men who decided they could bully and control me. I showed them they couldn't. The first man's battered wife was encouraged by my standing up to him, to leave him and divorce the bastard. I didn't find that out until several years later. The second bastard is my current next door neighbour whose own parking space adjoins mine behind my garden fence. He actually had the nerve to say to me If you wanted me to stop coming onto your property you should have come to me and asked me to stop. I disagreed. My threat to put his photograph on my blog with the background, and award him the Bastard of the Month title might have had an effect, too. He knows now not to mess with FeistyOldBat. It's quite satisfying. Grin Otherwise my neighbours are lovely, friendly and helpful without being pushy, and I try to be the same.

Motoko · 16/06/2018 02:08

Good for you FeistyOldBat!

CanuckBC · 16/06/2018 02:28

FiestyOldBat! I love you❤️ You are awesome for researching all of that and following through.

JohnHunter · 16/06/2018 02:40

Someone once let all their air out of my tyres. The police said that this wasn't an offence as nothing was missing and there was not any damage. Just saying.

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