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To ask what do you class as cheating?

56 replies

itis · 13/06/2018 14:17

Texting? Watching porn? Having feelings for someone else? Curious to know what your boundaries are.

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AlReef · 13/06/2018 17:12

Anything he wouldn't want me to know about

Katgurl · 13/06/2018 17:35

Not porn but I don't really want to know about him watching it.

Checking out other women discreetly is fine, the human eye is naturally drawn to beauty. When we were first going out he unabashedly stared at other women and it infuriated me after a while. I always hate when men stare at me with their partner beside them, I think it's so disrespectful to them and I couldn't believe I was now on the receiving end of this behaviour. He has stopped but argued initially that he wasn't doing anything wrong as he wasn't over trying to get their numbers or anything.

Sexting, meeting up in secret, kissing I would totally regard as cheating. I fully expect him to be attracted to other women but communicating this to them is a betrayal imo.

MrsKoala · 13/06/2018 17:40

Rainbow kissing.

JustHereForThePooStories · 13/06/2018 18:37

Cleveland steamers

BadTasteFlump · 13/06/2018 19:00

Connecticut mudslide

KittyVonCatsworth · 13/06/2018 19:09

Tromboning? Munging/ munting? I’m afraid to google, MiL is floating around 😂 I know what dragonbutter is and always snigger in the supermarket as we have Dragon butter (dairy based spread) in Wales!

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