Am I being disgusting.

[babibell]

I lost my baby on the 8th December. They would be due 17th July. I want to try now but when I got upset once about it, I said I wouldn't try till their due date. Would I be disgusting to start trying now?

No you are not. You know when the time is right. Don't be so hard on yourself. Xx

No, sweetie, you wouldn't

You need to do what's right for you, not anyone else.

No love,it would be fine.
So sorry for your loss x

I guess you are right @Spudina @TheDairyQueen x i even told that baby when I got all emotional (weird Ik) that I wouldn't try. I feel like I'm lying to them😩 thank you so much x

@Ohyesiam thank you so much

Bless you, no of course not.
I hope it all goes well for you.

@napmeistergeneral thank you xx

[flowers]@babibell. I was told this week I’d had a missed miscarriage and then had an ERPC yesterday - I am a mess but I am sure I will start trying again before the date that was my EDD (not till Dec)

Oh of course not. You try whenever you're ready. Wishing you all the very best

op. Not disgusting. Just dealing with a terrible situation.

It's perfectly fine.

I remember it is hard carrying a non-bump, where everything should have carried on but didn't, waiting for the due day and others can't see the emotional weight you carry.

I was pregnant again just before due date and it was ok. If it had been after that would have been fine too. See what happens for you and good luck.

@HelloViroids I'm so sorry you have to go through that! it's terrible isn't it. It is honestly soothing in a way ttc because it stops you dwelling on what could have been as much because it make you think what you will have, never stops those what could of been moments completely though:( x best of wishes xx

@Ceebs85 @Mirrorwriting @Chocmallows thank you so much for all the support and I'm sorry for you lose, it's horrible😭x

Helloviroids I had an ERPC years ago, it's very sad to go through, but didn't affect my later pregnancy. Good luck to you too.

Oh no babibell, not disgusting at all, not even remotely. Far, far from any kind of betrayal, you are honouring your lost baby's memory with your every thought and feeling, and the love you will feel for your new baby will be a balm to soothe your pain. So sorry for your loss

@LauderSyme thank you so much I can't believe how much positivity I'd be getting and I hope everyone feels it too x

I lost my baby, due July, in December, a couple of years ago. My pain was healed so much by conceiving again before my due date. I got my beautiful baby in October instead, but I will never forget his sister.

I'm so sorry to hear that but congrats on having your son ❤️

Bless you, no. Not disgusting in the slightest.

I had two mmc, one with an eprc. I started trying again after both within the month. It felt right for me at the time. Absolutely no one would judge you for wanting to try any earlier.

Just have a chat with your doctor first in case their advice it to wait a while to increase the odds of this pregnancy going smoothly.

@Monr0e I'm so sorry you went through thatx

Thanks! I think you will find comfort and hope as you try again and look to the future x

Oh op, no! There is nothing wrong with trying again, nothing at all as long as you feel ready

@thegreatbeyond same for youx

No, absolutely not. I hope all goes really well