I absolutely agree OP. I think there is a scandalous lack of information and education given to women about the hazards of childbirth. Just because it is a natural process that are bodies are designed to do does not mean that it carries significant risks, years ago those risks included death, now thankfully due to medical advances death in childbirth is rare, but serious significant and long term damage to the woman's pelvic organs and muscles is all too common.
I had absolutely no idea of the inherent risks of natural childbirth and delivering large babies.
My first birth I had an episiotomy, no biggie I thought, rather that than a tear. Except the episiotomy was stitched up too tight and I had to go back and have further surgery a few months later under GA to have it corrected.
Second birth I delivered a 10lb6oz girl, all fine until I had a massive haemorrhage some hours after birth and almost died on the operating table as they shovelled units of blood in to me as fast as possible.
3rd baby - when I tentatively asked if maybe I should have a CS this time due to the horrible experience last time around I was dismissed and told not to worry, there was no way that would happen again. This time baby was 10lb8oz and I had a 4th degree tear which did not heal properly and which now has left me with permanent bowel Incontinence which has had quite some impact on my life.
Babies 4&5 were by elective section and were entirely straightforward and trauma free.
I am angry at the way I was not given proper info (and my own anecdotal experience would suggest this is the norm) legally speaking if one is not given full info of possible risks in a natural childbirth before undergoing it then the hospital is deemed to not have acquired informed consent by the mother and is open to a lawsuit if anything goes wrong.
This as you can tell is a bit of a pet subject of mine, as a mum of two daughters I will make sure they are fully informed. The stakes are too high and it's not good enough that women are left incontinent from menopause onwards.