@bowlofbabelfish
But where I work women ARE told about the possibility of forceps, ventousse etc. We can’t say there will be a choice between 1 or the other as that depends on the situation at the time. We can’t accuratly give the risks of one or the other as again that depends on the situation at the time. E.g a woman has been pushing for an hour and no progress. The risks of forceps may be higher than the risk of caesarean if the head is still high. A baby’s head is very low and the heart rate suddenly drops or worse stops. A forceps is safer and quicker than a caesarean. The risks of each are totally unique to each and every situation. It is impossible to discuss every single possible situation and the risks of them all. It would require a degree over several years! I could discuss with a woman high forceps vs caesarean and she says no forceps, but if it’s an emergency such as cord prolapse at full dilation where the baby is likely to be dead by the time a caesarean is performed she may feel differently. That’s why consent has to be at the time and unique to the situation that is happening.
You say talk about the common ones, high forceps are only used in 5% of births, is that classed as common? Depends on who you ask. Women should never be having forceps deliveries without pain relief that’s barbaric and is not normal practice. If you genuinely know someone that has happened to they need to complain. Local anaesthetic should always be used for an episiotomy and if doing a forceps delivery the puedendal nerve should also be anaesthesthised.
@rubyeliza I had my children before I was a midwife and I was no more knowledgeable or educated than the majority of mothers. I was happy with my care and was lucky enough to have uncomplicated deliveries. My training since has made me realise that some aspects of my care were bad practice but at the time I didn’t know that and thought it was good. I remember being thankfull for the team that saved my daughters life when she was born with an APGAR of 0. I didn’t realise until after my training that the events that unfolded, induction, being left alone etc. caused her to be in such poor condition and it could have been prevented. My training has changed my views yes, I personally, remember I said personally, would never consent to induction again, I wouldn’t consent to an instrumental delivery or a caesarean just because my labour is taking too long, I wouldn’t consent to an elective caesarean. That’s because I know MY risk factors however, if there were other complications or it was a case of risk my babies life or have an instrumental or surgical delivery my views would change.
I honestly believe the answer is better antenatal education. Remember I said the trust I work at had 90% of women happy with their care, some of them had forceps, some had caesareans, some had complications, many will have had some form of injury. But they were happy because I believe our antenatal education is effective. Some of the stories I’m hearing on here are not comparable and this needs to be standardised across the UK so all women are getting the same.
Secondly postnatal care needs a huge overhaul. As I stated earlier we risk assess all women for urinary incontinece and refer to physio if they are high risk, I find it shocking that not all trusts are doing something similar. We will never fully prevent women having birth injuries but if we have prepared women for the possibility, detect it quickly and refer on to manage and treat it quickly we can stop birth injuries having such an impact on women’s life’s.