DH has taken half term off with the kids (DD 7 & DS 4) while I work (am a healthcare professional).
He's booked for them to go to the theatre tomorrow (a v large theatre) to see a show & has tonight realised it's actually an autism friendly performance.
He's now v stressed that the show could be ruined by noise & even if it isn't it will be a pared down performance so won't be as good as normal.
I've tried to reassure him that the differences probably won't be hugely noticeable and that I'm sure they'll have a lovely time but being told I'm self righteous and "why can't I stop being a healthcare professional and be a parent about this".
Has anyone previously taken neuro-typical kids to these sorts of performances & enjoyed them.
I understand DH's worries/frustration he's spent lots on tickets but don't think I'm BU to find his reaction way over the top & be so frustrated that he can't see my opinion as a person instead "blaming" it on my profession 😕