Last year I split from my ex, many police visits, pressed charges for harassment and obtained a non molestation order. The police were fine during the process but didn't pop in for any follow ups, nor did I expect them to.
I stupidly got back with him for 6 months and then split again. This involved one police visit (no charges) and help from women's aid.
Every day since we split (about 6 weeks) ex has threatened suicide. I don't engage with him but he texts/creates new Facebook accounts/rings withheld so I do get these threats despite ignoring them. I do forward some this mum just incase he is being serious but I haven't reported any to the police.
Well today a policeman knocked on my door, I immediately said oh is this about X? He said yes and I asked has he killed himself?
Policeman said no and looked a bit confused so I explained about the threats.
He then asked me of X was here, he obvious weren't or I wouldn't have asked if he was dead. He then went on to aske where he is living, which I know they have record of or if I know any other places he stays.
He said he was just checking everything was ok and wether X had done anything else.
He asked did my dog belong to ex, I said no he has A, B, C & D breeds. he wrote this information down
Tbwn he asked was X driving, I told him about his car and he confirmed that has been taken from him already (X doesn't have a license).
He then asked if I know anything else he has been up to. I confirmed I don't as I haven't been in touch for over a month.
He passed me a card and said if I think of anything I can call crime stoppers anonymous.
So AIBU to think that it wasn't just a courtesy call to check I am ok after recent events but actually X has done something and the policeman was looking for information?