AIBU here? I work four days and travel into work (1 hour each way). Partner (can't bring myself to call him DP today) works for himself, from home, and can pretty much do as he wishes, for example, this Friday he is having a golf day, so no work for him. DD has medical appointment at 6pm today and Partner was due to take her. This morning, before I left, he asked if I was going to leave work early and take DD to appointment. I said, no, as he would be at home. He told me I was selfish and that he has to do everything! He does no other drop offs, I do all the clubs during week, on my day off and at weekends. He said all I care about is my job (not true) and that I should leave work an hour earlier. I get this a lot from him. AIBU??