AIBU to ask for your stories of hope after repeated pregnancy loss?

[whyhastherumgone]

Just that really.
Had first trimester mmc the first time round second trimester loss the second and have just finished a chemical pregnancy. Feeling pretty low and like it’s never going to happen for us (i’m 33) and really sorry for myself.

Would really appreciate any stories from people who have had similar and gone on the have DC.

Sorry to bring the mood down.

@BertieBotts
Hi I know this is an old thread, sorry to jump in, I’m just wondering if your DH was offered help from the genetic department? My ds (12) has just today been to see the genetic about his BT and they told me he must plan a pregnancy when he’s older and they’ll do some sort of ivf? To make sure it’s not passed on

3 losses of various kinds before DC1 as well as a number of failed ICSIs, another loss and a failed round before DC2.

We lost DD1 at birth as she was still born at 32 weeks and then I had 5 miscarriages.

We then managed to have DD2 who is now 4 and due to start reception in September.

We never in a million years thought we'd have DD2. I had her at 43 and she was much hoped for, but very unexpected.

Miracles can happen. We have ours.