I work shifts, including some very late (or rather early am!) finishes. Within reason if these shifts fall on a weekday I still do the morning school run to save on childcare. If they fall on a weekend I appreciate a lie in until say 11, particularly if I’m on the same shift that day.
Last night I was held on 3 hours after I should have finished, meaning it was after 4.30am when I got to bed. DH knows this’ll I always text to let him know when I’m leaving work (phone on silent so this doesn’t actually wake him). This morning he brought me a coffee at 7.15 when the kids woke. I sent him away. He popped in at 8 to check on me. I sent him away. At half 9 he came in to tell me some pointless info that really could have waited and at 10 he decided to have a shower in the en suite when he could have used the bathroom. He now can’t understand why I’m grumpy. He does this on a semi regular basis because apparently he gets bored sometimes and he won’t see much of me before I have to go back to work. The second part is true, but I do try to make up for this on my days off. AIBU to expect the occasional weekend lie in?!