I got pregnant around the same time as a family member's close friend decided she didn't want to have any more children. I was the only person she knew who had/was having a baby so she decided to give me all her old things she no longer needed (moses basket, bath seat, baby chair) etc. I offered to pay for these things and she refused, I was very grateful. Anyway fast forward a few months and the family member who's friend this is, very unexpectedly, got pregnant and she came to me and said "friend says I can have all her stuff now, when can I come collect it", I was shocked initially but wasn't using some of the stuff anyway so took it over when she was around 20 weeks. She had a checklist on her phone from her friend of all the things I had to give back! I was so offended, it's as if she thinks she can't trust me. Anyways I've been slowly giving the stuff back as my dd grows out of it but I got a text the other day saying I need all the stuff back now please and a list of what I still had (she's not even nearly due and as I said it's still in use) I took the things round to her house including a bath seat that I'd still been using (she only has a shower) Also a moses basket for which I gave her my brand new mattress as the one her friend gave was used and tattered. She said oh "friend has sent me a link to her moses basket mattress as it's more expensive than yours, can you bring that". Bare in mind she's aware I've never used a moses basket as I ended up co sleeping so it's not like she thought I'd nabbed it for myself. AIBU to think this is absolute CFery. I wouldn't have minded giving the stuff back but the way they've gone about it has made me feel like utter shit and like I'm the one being cheeky!