I've been losing sleep over this so I'll jump right in and ask: is it possible for an employee at the council to snoop at someone's details (ie, address, workplace, benefits claimed, NI number, salary ect)? I know it's not ethical and probably breaks codes of conduct, but is it possible?
My ex who I finally disentangled myself from 7 years ago has gleefully messaged me that his brother's job has allowed him access to all my personal details and that he will 'have fun fucking my life up'. I don't want to give this person headspace, but I don't like the idea that he could turn up where I live, or meddle in my life. I feel sick.