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To hope he's bluffing

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worriedaboutt · 06/05/2018 09:22

I've been losing sleep over this so I'll jump right in and ask: is it possible for an employee at the council to snoop at someone's details (ie, address, workplace, benefits claimed, NI number, salary ect)? I know it's not ethical and probably breaks codes of conduct, but is it possible?
My ex who I finally disentangled myself from 7 years ago has gleefully messaged me that his brother's job has allowed him access to all my personal details and that he will 'have fun fucking my life up'. I don't want to give this person headspace, but I don't like the idea that he could turn up where I live, or meddle in my life. I feel sick.

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mzcracker · 06/05/2018 11:40

Bloody hell what an utter pair of fools they are.
Just echoing what pp have said and report to the police, screenshot everything.
Pair of clowns.

worriedaboutt · 06/05/2018 12:23

Thanks so much for the support and good advice- and the laughs! Chuckle brothers definitely spring to mind with those two.

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Awwlookatmybabyspider · 06/05/2018 12:42

They've allowed him access to your personal details. It's not you whose life will be fucked. Breach of data protection is an on the spot sackable offence.
110% report. You've lost sleep. Let the same happen to them. What goes around comes around.

almondcroissantplease · 06/05/2018 15:14

I would send the message by TheStoic and do the steps given by Fizzygreen..

If it's true and BIl has passed that info on, he's in deep trouble.. there's not that much ex can do with the data either

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