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To be annoyed that my washing will be ruined

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Flicksthename · 06/05/2018 09:15

Just opened all the windows in the house and realised that our next door neighbours are having a BBQ...At 9am.
It’s onviously the first time they’ve used it this year as it’s bellowing smelly smoke, that I initially thought was a bonfire.
I have two loads of washing on the line.
I actually quite like the smell of bonfires (although in this case it’s a BBQ) so wouldn’t normally be bothered but I’m a bit pissed off that the two loads I was up early to do will be ruined!

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IronMansIronButt · 06/05/2018 12:47

then its the music, not the BBQ. Plus where you live, of course.

Amanduh · 06/05/2018 12:49

Antisocial 😂😂😂😂😂 oh mumsnet, you do provide the lols.

ForTheLoveOfSleep · 06/05/2018 12:50

@IronMansIronButt assume that was aimed at me?

What does where I live have to do with it? Hmm
And yes the fact they are having a BBQ means they have the music on...

IronMansIronButt · 06/05/2018 12:52

What does where I live have to do with it?

What does where you live have to do with your neighbours? If you can't work that one out, I can't help you!

ForTheLoveOfSleep · 06/05/2018 12:55

Yes please explain.

Is it a social class thing?

Surely any person can live anywhere they choose?

IronMansIronButt · 06/05/2018 12:57

Oh good lord, its painful here sometimes

"what does where I live have to do with my neighbours?"

Hmm, let us all think, if you didn't live there, they wouldn't be your neighbours? By jove, I think she's got it!

Kursk · 06/05/2018 13:00

Christ almighty. Why do the Brits even bother having gardens? According to MN you're an uber cunt if you use them: if you have a bbq, or mow your lawn outside the hours of 2-3 every 5th Saturday, if you have a trampoline, if you listen to the radio, if you have children who arent silent, if you ever have people over, if you play football.

Threads like this prove to me that the UK is overpopulated.

It’s their property that they pay tax on. They are free to do as they please.

DH If he could would BBQ everything 3 times a day April-September.

ForTheLoveOfSleep · 06/05/2018 13:01

"Oh good lord, its painful here sometimes"

Oh dear. Waddle on then poppit. Smile

DamsonOnThisDress · 06/05/2018 13:05

Hanging your washing out on a Sunday? Shock

That's flaming torches you smell, OP.

BusterGonad · 06/05/2018 13:11

It's a bit of washing, that probably won't even smell of BBQ.
I've never had my washing smell of log burners either!

AnnieAnoniMouser · 06/05/2018 13:19

🤣😂🤣😂.

Only on MN 😂

ohtheholidays · 06/05/2018 13:27

9 am,I like BBQ's but that's taking the piss!

Were having our first BBQ of the year today and I'm really looking forward to it,but it won't start until 5pm(our oldest DS is at work and won't be home till then)and we always make sure to let our neighbours know(incase of any laundry still on the line)and we have the BBq down the end of the garden so not anywhere near peoples windows,doors ect and we won't have music blaring or keep it all going till gone midnight.

I think everyone can enjoy they're gardens without being anti social and without giving any of they're poor neighbours a break down(we had neighbours like that before)people should just try to treat others as they'd like to be treated.

darklady64 · 06/05/2018 13:28

Leave your washing out and let it air once the bbq is done. Although to be honest I've never had my washing smell of bbq even when there's been one next door.

craigglen · 06/05/2018 13:35

So much anger and bitterness! I'm just glad the sun is shining and it's probably going to shine tomorrow. Everyone I've met today has been smiling. My neighbours aren't going to spoil my joy no matter what shenanigans they get up to 😀

Flicksthename · 06/05/2018 13:41

Wow! I wasn’t expecting such a response!
I left the washing out in the end to air. It doesn’t appear to smell of burnt sausage.
I absolutely don’t have an issue with BBQs and don’t really have an issue with BBQ breakfasts, however it was the plumes of bonfire like smoke that got my goat!
Anyway it seems to have been fine. I’ve got my final wash on now, which fingers crossed, should dry before they have their evening BBQ. We will be having one too but it is nowhere near as smoky.
Enjoy th sunshine everyone 😎

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corcaithecat · 06/05/2018 14:02

Oh and feck off with all this 'enjoy the sunshine' nonsense. Is cloudy with drizzle here. Envy

corcaithecat · 06/05/2018 15:42

Well it's not quite sunny but it is brighter now and no rain. Hurrah! Smile

IronMansIronButt · 06/05/2018 18:07

I left the washing out in the end to air. It doesn’t appear to smell of burnt sausage

So it was a completely non issue and you had no reason to complain at all?

PlumsGalore · 06/05/2018 18:10

I did the bacon on the BBQ at 9:00 am this morning, TBF I never gave it a thought until I read the MN thread about cleaning BBQs. We on,y have one neighbour though and he was still sleeping off last nights beer fest I suspect.

I am going to light it again now for our steak. Get your washing in quick.

GlitterRollerSkate · 06/05/2018 18:38

My husband has been bbqing with my washing on the line. He is stood right fucking next to it. He didn't think.. Hmm

SmileEachDay · 06/05/2018 18:43

I don’t understand how a barbecue ruins the washing.

Although I don’t iron anything, so perhaps I have low standards....

Flicksthename · 06/05/2018 20:13

@IronMansIronButt I guess you could say that.
I’m hoping that the excessive smoke was just because they hadn’t used it in a while. If it happens more regularly (the smoke plumes) I’ll ask them to give me a friendly heads up so I can take my washing in!
Anyway i want to re-wash half of it as they were towels. I forgot how much I hate the feel of air dried towels. I must remember to put them in the tumble drier from now on. Doh!

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