To feel pushed out

[Rapunzel15]

Im currently on holiday with my DP, DD (2 1/2) and my in laws. They are both lovely and i get on with them really well the only problem is they seem to be obsessed with giving me a break.
So far the entire holiday has consisted of them taking DD to do all the fun stuff while they insist i stay at the hotel "having a break" i know they mean well but i miss DD terribly. Im a sahm and genuinely enjoy being with my DD and i feel like im missing out on some great times with her.
They spend plenty of time with her usually, i just dont see why i cant join in.
How do i bring this up with out sounding rude or ungrateful?

Use the emotive language that others have suggested, right back at them. You are being left out - by all of them (WTF is your P doing, buggering off with his parents and leaving you alone?). You are missing your DD and this is not a "break".

Glad your DD sorted things for yesterday, but she needs your help to keep up the pressure!

Posters have advised on how to assert yourself while on the holiday, with your in laws and DP.

When you get home, suggest you read up on and practice assertiveness, and tackle your DP’s useless “keep the peace” (ie comply with his parents, to your detriment) approach!

Not the point of the thread but unless you’re financially well off in your own right it’s a huge, personal financial risk to be a SAHM if you’re not married.

Not necessarily healthy to not want to be parted from DD and miss her hugely - can fully understand your annoyance about your in laws’ behaviour on this holiday - but in general.

It's come to the point where your own DD has to intercede on your behalf. Be the adult you are and try to be a role model for your daughter by politely but firmly speaking to your IL's about edging you out of a "supposedly" family holiday. Talk to your DH seriously, not PA little dibbles. Make a stand. Your daughter should not have to be YOUR advocate.

This. Your PIL are being way overbearing but how unfair that you hide behind your daughter to push people away! Please don't set her up for a lifetime of having to look after you!

Have you had a better day today OP. I hope you managed to talk to your IL's & DH about your feelings.