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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

I know A&E is busy, but

55 replies

Meopham · 22/04/2018 00:15

you should at least check what's going on before you pull the curtain back?

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SneakyGremlins · 22/04/2018 00:16

Confusedl

Meopham · 22/04/2018 00:23

I mean staff shouldn't just pull the curtain back before finding out whats going on?

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Sparklingbrook · 22/04/2018 00:24

I don't know what's going on in thei thread.

youngnomore · 22/04/2018 00:25

I’ve been to a&e many times. It’s not a private place by any means. I’ve had an enema behind curtains with the police chasing a crack heard outside and the Curtains flinging open while I was crapping my brains out on the camode.

pumpersnatch · 22/04/2018 00:27

What could be going on that you wouldn't want the medical staff to see?

GinThereDoneThat · 22/04/2018 00:28

@youngnomore Grin I am actually laughing not so silently into my pillow at the thought of that! Sorry Blush

Gibraltaryousay · 22/04/2018 00:29

No you're right op, all staff should be maintaining patient privacy and confidentiality standards at all times.

PickAChew · 22/04/2018 00:30

If it's in full view of people waiting then yanbu, show patients some respect.

Meopham · 22/04/2018 00:31

What could be going on that you wouldn't want the medical staff to see?
Not the medical staff so much. Just everyone else. Dd in law having and ecg done, and curtains wide open so everyone can see!

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youngnomore · 22/04/2018 00:31

Gin- oh it’s funny to me too Grin

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Bambamber · 22/04/2018 00:35

I've been in a few times and had an ecg. A couple of times they kept the curtains open as they wanted to be able to keep an eye on me without having to disturb me all the time

If you find it intrusive just ask them if they wouldn't mind the curtains being shut

Meopham · 22/04/2018 00:36

If you find it intrusive just ask them if they wouldn't mind the curtains being shut
It's not the first thing that springs to mind? You sort of expect the staff to respect your privacy?

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Gibraltaryousay · 22/04/2018 00:37

Meopham, I've had an ecg before. I was completely bare chested for it. If you're dil is sitting having an ecg done with no bra/top on and everything on view you need to speak to the staff about maintaining her dignity.

Meopham · 22/04/2018 00:38

If it's in full view of people waiting then yanbu, show patients some respect.
Exactly. You don't expect other people to see what's going on

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UpstartCrow · 22/04/2018 00:41

I had that and was topless, it was fucking horrible. YANBU.

Sparklingbrook · 22/04/2018 00:41

Are you back home now? Is everyone ok? That's the main thing.

If you still feel stressed about it in the morning then put a complaint in.

shouldnthavesaid · 22/04/2018 00:41

You're right - I get catheterised in A&E quite often which is (unfortunately for me) a lengthy process usually involving at least 2 nurses and a doctor due to lots of issues.

Worst time a cleaner waltzed in midway through - legs akimbo, doctor and nurse trying to feed tubing in... cleaner backed out very quickly once she realised!

The door was bloody shut on that occasion too, it wasn't even a curtain!!

SunnySkiesSleepsintheMorning · 22/04/2018 00:42

Of course YANBU but some contrary arse will probably tell you otherwise.

Tomboytown · 22/04/2018 00:46

Well maybe they need to pull back the curtain to see what's going on?Confused

Meopham · 22/04/2018 00:47

I was completely bare chested for it. If you're dil is sitting having an ecg done with no bra/top on and everything on view you need to speak to the staff about maintaining her dignity.
The same. She was bare chested, literally just her knickers on. Other people could see (other patients/relatives etc), with no concern. I was embarrassed that I could see!

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Ginkypig · 22/04/2018 00:48

Last time I had an ecg I was told to put on a gown which the doctor then just whipped open exposing my naked top half without warning and never closed it again so I'd feel a tad exposed if the curtains were then left open.

Meopham · 22/04/2018 00:49

Well maybe they need to pull back the curtain to see what's going on?confused
So that everyone could see?

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hazeyjane · 22/04/2018 00:54

Well maybe they need to pull back the curtain to see what's going on?

It is possible to go into a curtained area without throwing back the curtains for everyone to see.

Meopham · 22/04/2018 01:03

It is possible to go into a curtained area without throwing back the curtains for everyone to see
Maybe it is, but to leave the curtains open afterwards?

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