To want to get rid of my cat?

[pagefruits1991]

Ive had my cat for 6 years. She has always been neurotic, we have even taken her to the vets a couple of times about it.
Basically there isn't much we can do.

She constantly wees on all the beds and sofas. So much so that we have had to ban her from going upstairs. She poos on everything she can. 5 days out of 7 I will come downstairs in the morning to poo on the floor despite there being a clean, huge litter tray with natural wood litter in it.

On Monday she pooed in her food bowl.

I'm aware this isn't normal behaviour however she has always been like this from day 1, we have tried everything from plug ins, behaviour therapy and (v.expensive) steroid injections. Nothings works.

She refuses to eat biscuits and nags for meat, she throws up quite often and does not like being picked up.

She can go outside whenever she likes. She can be out for 12 hours whilst we work etc and come in and wee on the bed.

Things got worse after I had a baby last year. Her behaviour hasn't changed but I no longer have time to pander to it.

I came down this morning to diahorrea in the lounge and my baby nearly went for it! I had to put him back in his crib screaming and get the bleach out.

I feel like her muck might make us or my baby especially, ill.

Genuinely don't know what to do, shes my responsibility but I don't want to risk my sons health for an animal.

I would never normally advocate this however if you have tried everything to make her better and she is still doing it then is it perhaps worth PTS and no-one is going to keep her if She is messing everywhere. She will be picking up on your stress.

Before you consider PTS have you had her looked at for any digestive problems that may be making her unable to get to the litter tray on time?

How old is she?

Sounds like the vets have missed something here there must be an under lying digestive problem surely

It sounds like you have already tried everything you can. I don't think you would be able to rehome a cat like that if the vet can't find anything medically wrong. It would break my heart in your position but I don't know what option you would have other than PTS. It sounds awful for you and poor kitty x

I came on this thread expecting to have to say yabu but as long as you rehome your cat through a specialist cat charity (cats protection league) I think you and the cat will probably ALL feel better off.
Cats are sometimes like that, but if you are getting cross about it etc it may be the cat needs an owner that can cope with her needs, and you can relax a bit more to look after your baby.
Personally I would keep the cat myself, I have had cats pooing on my beds before, it’s depressing, expensive and frustrating but it did improve for us in the end.

With regard to re-homing your cat would you consider finding a farm somewhere nearby which has out building so your cat can live outside but have shelter when need be,maybe an understanding farmer could help you .
I honestly think you have done everything you can bless you.

You've tried everything. PTS.

It could be various things like, she does not like her litter tray or the litter you use or where it is.

Could be her diet, have you tried her on a raw diet? You can buy premade raw food from PAH Natures Menu my cats tend to prefer the chicken one. But I also buy them frozen chicken mince and prawns from Iceland and get the fresh steak mince and diced beef from supermarket or butchers. A raw diet has so many benefits a lot of vets are against it but it is really good for them.

If she is on dry try her on a higher protein dry food with no grain in it ie applaws or purizon. Zooplus is the best out there and the cost is fantastic compared to supermarkets and PAH.

I have an anxious cat who is on CBD oil which I get from a supplier called Simply CBD -I tend to use CBD light which is specifically for pets it only costs me about £15 with postage. It takes about 2 - 4 weeks before you see any benefit, it has helped my cat that has epilepsy too.

If you are looking for a quick solution do try Zylkene which you can order off Amazon or just Google shopping they will give you the best price. Also if not already try to have Feliway defusers in the house it does help.

If you are fed up and want to give up please do try and contact your Cats Protection branch they will be able to help if not immediately they can put her or him on a waiting list and once a space becomes available take kitty in.

Feel free to pm me if you need any more info on the products I suggested.

I have had cats pooing on my beds before, it’s depressing, expensive and frustrating but it did improve for us in the end.

Why would anyone want a pet like this?

Can I also say a cat is very intuitive and if you are showing signs of hating her etc she will only react to it, does she have a safe space to go etc?

If she has the runs it could be the stress of the baby and your how do i put this "attitude" towards her. Please do consider it is not just an animal but it was a family member before your baby and deserves the compassion and patience that would be given to you.

Yes the vet checked out her digestive system and suggested we changed her food to organic special grain stuff (I can't remember the ones). It cost us a fortune and i was also boiling chicken and fish for her as well. Stayed with it for a good month and it made no difference.
She is 6 years old, she is well looked after, has injections every year etc.
Im tearful writing this but I don't think she is happy.
I want her to be happy :(

Frankchickens there are many reasons as to why a cat would be acting out like that and sometimes it could be as simple as the type of litter you use.

Personally for me I get very frustrated with people who feel that pets are disposable just because they are an animal. Very sad when people will not take the time and effort to find out what a pet needs and what the underlying problem might be. Sad that when they feel oh well lets just put it to sleep or put it out on the streets.

@Beaverhausen I don't feel this way, I'm sat here in tears because I don't know what to do. I love her, but I'm worried for my family's health

Sounds like you have tried everything op. I couldn’t live with this especially as you have a baby. I would reluctant pts too snd I adore animals

@Beaverhausen i will definitely use some of this oil and the other things you have suggested.

I thought i had exausted my options but its one thing I haven't done so I will try.

I would be looking at PTS in your shoes, to be honest.

Have you posted int he Litter Tray? there was a lady with a very similar problem - after years of the grief she rehired the cat (with a relative I think) and the issues went overnight. Try posting there fi you haven't. No one will judge you for this - it sounds (literally) crap.

FFS what's wrong with me - REHOMED.

Have you tried grain-free food? Ours had a grain intolerance and she ended up messing up everywhere because she couldn't hold it in to reach the litter tray.

I would also think about changing litter - ours love the wood chip stuff but previous cats have refused to use it.

I can feel how sad you are. You sound like a great pet owner who has a cat with needs bigger than what you can handle now esp with the new baby

I don't know what to advise you. I Hope that maybe this oil helps and you are at peace with whatever you decide to do

Pagefruits1991 if you need any advice feel free to message me I am a CP volunteer. Also if you need a quick remedy for now Zylkene is quite good and the Feliway.

But also look into her litter tray I have a cat who started widdling on my couch turned out she had outgrown her litter tray, got her a bigger one and problem solved.

High street pet food is really not good for cats so do consider a raw diet or a higher protein dry food for kitty.

Also look at Zooplus for various types and more hygienic litters and trays they are very cost effective.

I know it can be frustrating and especially with a new baby but be patient if it does not work contact your nearest CP branch they will be able to find her a home.

Good luck and feel free to message me if you need.

I agree with abigailsnan , find a new home with a more outside life for her like a farm or stables , she obviously isn't happy so rehousing would be better all round , use an animal charity for checks etc , six is still young enough for her to find somewhere that suits her better. Hope this helps , I can understand your frustration with the situation

CBD oil is very good for anxious and stressed pets, Paige Simply CBD is the most cost effective supplier out there and it certainly has saved my cat from being PTS due to her epilepsy.

www.simply-cbd.co.uk/

They also have a support group on Facebook called Simply CBD with a lot of people on there who can offer advice.

Start your dose slow with 1 drop 3 times a day for first week and 2nd week 2 3x a day third 3 3x a day until you find the right dosage but it should be no more than 3 drops and you can put it on her food.

It’s understandable that you’re at your wits end. I would be too. Has she been checked for diabetes? It’s a long shot, but we had a cat who pissed all over the house constantly until she was diagnosed.

I’d have a chat with a rehoming centre and see what they say. She’s still young, and if you leave it til she’s older she’ll be harder to rehome.