Hi all, I’ve namechanged as there are some aspects of this post that could be outing!
DP and I have moved in with his DGF while we save for a deposit. The living arrangement is working well but DGF is quite a stubborn (albeit lovely) man and can often not be reasoned with if he doesn’t want to do something. He doesn’t have dementia or anything like that, but what he does have is a 4yo tom cat who has never been to a vet, meaning he’s never had any jabs and hasn’t been neutered. He’s mostly cuddly but can be very aggressive. He bites, sprays over everything and he just STINKS!
WIBU to take the cat to the vet to be jabbed and neutered? I would happily pay for this to be done if it meant a quiet life with a cat that doesn’t scratch, bite or stink. Is neutering as effective in calming the cat down when they’re out of the kitten phase?
TIA!