DH weekend away

[Oscillationss]

Not sure how I feel about DH planning to go away for bank holiday weekend.
We can't afford it, for one. It will cost 3x what we've paid to go away as a family of 5 for a whole week and it will leave us struggling.
Secondly I wouldn't consider leaving him to go on a jolly for 2 nights as I know he would find it a challenge to lol after 3 under 5 alone. The baby doesn't sleep well and our middle child is often up in the night too.
I feel guilty for being so against the idea and now he's saying that he feels left out as the rest of them are going.
I am willing to accept I am BU if the hive mind thinks I am btw!

So while it's a stag do he isn't bothered about going to the wedding so not that close to the groom that he would be missed if he didn't go.

He's just using it as a excuse to go on the lash.

You can't afford it so that answers the question.

And fgs leave him with his DC and take some time for yourself. They are just as much his responsibility.