I'm hardly aggressive Curious, I just get irritated with people who can't seem to apply common sense to an issue. If as the OP says she's a Cypriot expat, then she should know what, if any, risk there is, going to Cyprus, as it was used during the 90s for air strikes during Granby, Telic in 2003, Ellamy in 2011 and Luminous in 2013. It's hardly a new thing.
Furthermore a little thought might help: Cyprus is an EU member state, so to attack it would be an attack on the EU. The SBAs are British; we are in NATO, and as per article 5, an attack on one, is an attack on all...so would Russia want to take on all of NATO? Russia has an agreement with Cyprus to use its ports, there is a lot of Russian money in Cyprus, so why would Russia attack it?
I also find it hard to believe that if the OP was phoning the British embassy that she wouldn't have looked at the FCO website. Indeed, I find it hard to believe that anyone who purports to live in the UK hasn't heard of the Foreign office or that you need to look at its website for travel advice as that is on the news pretty regularly whenever there is a problem.
OP, it's an open forum. You can post, and I can respond. That's what AIBU is about.