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71 replies

Movablefeast · 03/04/2018 16:43

It may be grammatically correct to use but makes my teeth grind when I see it written down. It is used so often on MN but I never hear it used in real life. It just seems so pretentious and obnoxious. I read constantly and it also rarely used in fiction and non-fiction.

Just need to rant about a highly irritating word!

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BitOutOfPractice · 03/04/2018 16:46

Whilst I understand it may grate on you, I rather like it!

I got told off for using "unbeknownst" the other day

HuskyMcClusky · 03/04/2018 16:49

It’s not as bad as ‘said’! As in, ‘There was a child sitting in front of us. Said child was eating a burger’. Overused to the max on mumsnet - drives me crazy every time I see it now.

HuskyMcClusky · 03/04/2018 16:50

See also ‘fast forward’.

‘I bought my mum a coat for Christmas. Fast forward to yesterday and she popped round wearing said coat’.

Aaaargh. Grin

JellySlice · 03/04/2018 17:07

Whilst
Amongst
Impact (when they mean affect)

Impact is wrong usage that has become common usage.

Whilst and amongst are legitimate alternatives to while and among, so I don't know why they send fingernails down the blackboard for me.

Haffiana · 03/04/2018 17:11

I use it in real life.

Movablefeast · 03/04/2018 17:15

While and among just sound so much nicer and clearer English. Sticking the "t" on the end just seems fussy and unnecessary.

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Movablefeast · 03/04/2018 17:18

I do love heaven forfend however!

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BitOutOfPractice · 03/04/2018 17:26

In my mind they are a bit different

While sort of means during

Whilst seem like more of a qualifier, (can't think of the right word) and I probably only use it at the beginning of a sentence

toomuchtooold · 03/04/2018 17:32

It's "cue" I can't stand on here. Correctly spelt or not. I hate it. And all the others.

ThePants999 · 03/04/2018 18:42

@HuskyMcClusky I'm sorry, I'll restrict myself to "aforementioned" from now on.

MoodyMumOfOne · 03/04/2018 18:50

Ha ha I hate said as well as in "said dog blah blah" So much annoys me now that I think I will have to start keeping reading and listening to a minimum!!

Movablefeast · 03/04/2018 19:14

ThePants999 Grin

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NewYearNewMe18 · 03/04/2018 19:26

texted.

shudders

FranticallyPeaceful · 03/04/2018 19:32

There’s a time and place for both. I personally feel a bit ugh when people say ‘while’ when ‘whilst’ is clearly better in its place

“While I understand your point” is totally different to “whilst I understand your point”.

“While”is more like ... during.

It’s difficult to explain, but they both have their place

CrispsForTea · 03/04/2018 19:39

I agree with Frantically. Grammatically speaking, they're interchangeable, but sometimes one just feels better than the other.
"I checked my phone whilst I waited" ew no gross
"Whilst this is true in most cases, it is not always relevant" fine

Tbh I would only use it in formal writing - never heard anyone say it in casual conversation!

Movablefeast · 03/04/2018 19:52

It seems to be used constantly on MN in ways I find clunky and unappealing.

Almost as bad as people talking about themselves in the third person.

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HuskyMcClusky · 04/04/2018 04:17

@HuskyMcClusky I'm sorry, I'll restrict myself to "aforementioned" from now on.

Well, ‘the’ works perfectly well to refer back to something you’ve just mentioned. You could give that a go. Smile

DameSquashalot · 04/04/2018 04:21

'said' really annoys me too.

Bellagio40 · 04/04/2018 04:41

“Said” drives me mad too. What is the point? Just use “the”.

Cavender · 04/04/2018 04:47

What nonsense.

“Whilst” is a perfectly ordinary word.

Whether you see it used in print or not will depend on what you read.

Personally I find it irritating that the word “pretentious” is often used on MN to mean variously:

“Something I wouldn’t do”
“Something I don’t understand”
“Something that intimidates me”

Hmm
Eatmycheese · 04/04/2018 04:58

Should of
Text as in I just text her to check
Like - it was LIKE, I was LIKE

Goes off to eat hands in mixture of flu riddled despair and pedantry

NorthernKnickers · 04/04/2018 09:03

😳 I use whilst...I write it AND say it (I now feel shame, as didn't realise it was a word-crime...apologies...I will refrain on MN and whisper the offending 'st' digraph henceforth) 😔

jellycat1 · 04/04/2018 09:08

I say whilst. It's fine. Where the hell did 'gotten' come from though?

blueskypink · 04/04/2018 09:12

Not as bad as the overuse and misuse of 'myself'

JellySlice · 04/04/2018 09:50

'Gotten' is a funny one. It's an Americanism.

There are two past participles for many English verbs (I think that's what they're called - I've forgotten Wink). Like to go has I went and I have gone. But to get only has got. In American English to get also has gotten. We frown upon that.

We should not, however, be quite so pompous: to forget? Yes, we say I have forGOTTEN.