Recent boyfriend seemed to have an issue with how I spent my money. I'm a single mum with 3 children and currently not working but will return once LO is at nursery next academic year.
My income is fairly limited but I usually have money for whatever we need. Sometimes I buy new but I make the most of sales and offers to get what the children need and get a lot of my things off eBay. Shoes are always new and I do shop around for the best price.
My food shop is done between Tesco and Asda. Tesco for main shop and the small local Asda for milk and bread top ups etc. We are all vegetarian (I'm also on a dietician led diet for a medical condition ) and I buy a lot of own brand food, along with quorn and tofu. I like nice things and splurge occasionally but I balance this with eBay and sales. Bf iwas saying I should be shopping at Aldi not Tesco because I can't afford it. He said this on a regular basis even though I explained Aldi doesn't sell tofu or many of the other products I buy.
He said he cant afford an iPhone and deducts that if he can't on his good salary then I shouldn't be able to either and I shouldn't be spending more than £10 a month in my phone. He wants to use my WiFi when he's here though so he doesn't use all his data as £10 a month doesn't last long. For the same reason messages are via messenger not text as costs too much 
I am learning to drive and he tried to tell me what car I could afford to lease and I got pissed off at this point as I'd had enough. I'll choose my own car thanks.
When we are together (usually at my house) I cook/provide all the meals and buy treats. If we go out I offer to pay sometimes and at least pay my half each time. Bearing in mind it's usually take away chips so not exactly haute cuisine! I never expect him to pay for anything.
My thinking is my money is my business and if my spending isn't affecting anyone else then it's my business.
I remember when we first met he asked how much maintenance my ex paid and how I supported myself and I thought it was quite rude.
We have recently split.
AIBU to be pissed off at his attitude?