DS (13) has been in hospital this week for planned major abdominal surgery. When we got confirmation of the surgery date ex made it clear that he would not be visiting DS during the hospital stay because he's a pathetic man-child he 'doesn't like hospitals'
Anyway it transpires that ex's parents had already booked a holiday abroad this week, flying Tuesday and ex was going with them. That's fine I don't begrudge them a holiday, however they have not contacted me once to see how DS is doing.
DS surgery was Monday and exmil text me at 9am to wish DS well. I also text her as soon as DS was out of theatre. Nothing from ex until 6pm when he text to say that exmil had told him about the op (he already knew, I gave him the date last month so clearly he had forgotten). None of them have contacted me since Monday. I have a civil relationship with ex and expil and DS is their only son/grandson. I just feel a bit like they don't really give a shit. I expect this sort of disinterest from ex as he has form for it but not expil.
AIBU and a bit sensitive?