Keilninnock I CHOSE to go on holiday to a lake/mountain location in France, and I CHOSE to go on a family cycle ride around the stunning lake we were camping at. I fell off the bike and had a nasty accident when the bike I hired broke while riding it (which involved falling down a rock face) that resulted in hospitalisation and the last couple of days of our holiday ruined as I was in pain and immobile.
Did I deserve that accident then, because I'm not homeless/living in abject poverty/< insert any number of awful situations here >
If it helps with your judgment, I HAVE been homeless, I have suffered abject poverty (just a couple of my personal tragedies in life) and that cheapo camping holiday was a huge privilege for us as we'd finally got safe on our feet financially and decided to treat ourselves and our DC to a weeks camping holiday...the first holiday in donkey's years.
Am I more deserving of your sympathy because of my 'tragic' backstory, or am I still undeserving because it was a privileged choice of mine to go on holiday and hire a bike?
It is possible to feel and express sympathy in more than one situation at any one time. Being privileged in having some choices doesn't mean those individuals should be eliminated from sympathy when a bad thing happens to them.