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Voilent 6 year old

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libertysilk · 06/03/2018 16:13

I've not seen friend for months due to her son. When I was 5 months pregnant he said 'I'm going to punch the baby and kill it'. Her response was oh your not going to do that, said in a soft way.
He loses his temper so easily and hits his sister or my other daughter, who is the same age as his sister.
I saw one of her friends today and said what had happened. She says she can't not say anything, but needs a day to think about it.
What do I do? I'm sure I'll get an angry response from my friend. But, I stand by not seeing her again.

OP posts:
catsatonthemat · 07/03/2018 19:20

Ultimately you have to do what you feel is right. You should never subject your child to a play date where you believe they are at risk of being hurt. Maybe your words will help her in some way.

hooochycoo · 07/03/2018 20:53

Or crush her

Marriedwithchildren5 · 07/03/2018 22:02

You could have worded it far better. Mutual friends will get involved. Sides will be taken. You did however say what the issue is. A few months too late maybe!

Happygolucky009 · 08/03/2018 06:18

libertysilk did you receive a reply?

Crusoe · 08/03/2018 06:43

What hooochycoo said further up thread is true for me and my son too.
I would be devastated to receive a text like the one you sent about a child who is clearly struggling and a parent who is probably desperate for support.

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