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To ask what you're doing for your mom for mother's day?

68 replies

Twocatsonebaby · 05/03/2018 20:34

Im stuck for what to do with my mom. She doesn't want to go out and she dreads the day since db committed suicide almost 3 years ago.
My mom over the past year, well every year but especially this year has been incredible. I couldn't be more thankful of her.
She deserves an island but I can't afford it. She doesn't want flowers and doesn't eat junk.. I'm stuck for what to do.
Any ideas? What are you ladies doing for your mom's?

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Twocatsonebaby · 05/03/2018 22:45

@kurri :( I'm so sorry she isn't well. Thinking of you x

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Twocatsonebaby · 05/03/2018 22:47

An the mom comment, why does that seriously matter so much you all need to take 5 mins out of your night to comment on it? It's irrelevant to the question. Hmm

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Bunbunbunny · 05/03/2018 22:49

What about going out with your dd and getting some nice photos together so you could print & frame? Maybe one of her & your dd together or all three of you?

KurriKurri · 05/03/2018 22:51

Thank you Twocats - its a difficult time, I think she has reached the point where she has had enough now, and she has stopped eating Sad

And you can call your Mum whatever you like - nobody's business but yours (I've heard Mom lots of times in this country - nothing wrong with it at all) Hope you find something lovely to do with your Mom - it must be a difficult day for her x

myrtleWilson · 05/03/2018 22:52

how about a subscription to a good interior design type magazine?

FreudianSlurp · 05/03/2018 22:52

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myrtleWilson · 05/03/2018 22:53

that would be a present obviously but you could couple that with a mooch round a local antique fair and tea shop tea/cakes?

TestingTestingWonTooFree · 05/03/2018 22:57

My mum mainly wants quality time with me and/or my sister.

Twocatsonebaby · 05/03/2018 22:58

That's a really good idea. The subscription and photo frames :) she has lots of newborn dd but not almost toddler dd :p thanks all Grin

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MotherofaSurvivor · 06/03/2018 09:07

Mom?! You mean MUM!!

MotherofaSurvivor · 06/03/2018 09:09

Op it has become a new trend to adopt American sayings. It really is not very becoming! Unless you're from the USA/want people to think you are (why?!?!) please use the English language correctly!

myrtleWilson · 06/03/2018 09:17

Oh ffs - read the thread (and the gazillion others on mum/mom/mam) Mom has perfectly established and acceptable regional usage in UK

RusholmeRuffian · 06/03/2018 09:19

"It really is is not very becoming" hahaha. Read the thread, don't be such a knob, educate yourself.

MissionItsPossible · 06/03/2018 09:23

FFS 'Mom' is very much widely used and accepted in Birmingham and other parts of the Midlands.

MissionItsPossible · 06/03/2018 09:24

Proud Brummie MP Jess Phillips has revealed she demands that Parliament’s official report records her talking about her mom in the House of Commons - and not her “mum”.

Like many people in Birmingham and the Black Country, she talks about her mom and spells the word with an “o” in the middle.

In the south, however, the word is written and pronounced “mum”, and some people think that mom is the American spelling.

Every speech by an MP is printed in Hansard, the official report of events in the Commons. And Ms Phillips, Labour MP for Birmingham Yardley , said Hansard’s writers sometimes remove her Brummie accent.

So when she sees that Hansard has reported her saying the word in the southern way, she insists that they change it back.

She told the BBC’s Daily Politics show: “I’ve had the same thing changed on two different occasions. Because I’m from Birmingham, and when I say the word mom, if I talk about my mom or if I talk about being a mom in the House of Commons, they always write it ‘mum’.

“And I am from Birmingham and we spell it ‘mom’.”

She added: “And it annoys me every time that they sort of try and sanitise my regional accent.”

Niceandwarmandhot · 06/03/2018 09:28

Could you do something like a manicure together, OP? Not too expensive and looks pretty. Then you could just go for a wander around some shops and have a cup of tea or something. The photo idea is also a good one!

AuntLydia · 06/03/2018 11:22

Oh dear god @motherofasurvivor an op talking about how hard mothers day is for her MOM since her brother passed away and that's what you choose to offer her? Unnecessary and unwanted advice to change what she is calling her own mother because you personally don't like the word mom?

What does that say about you do you think? Not very 'becoming' is it?

SistersOfPercy · 06/03/2018 11:43

I only read this thread to see how long it was before some arseholes started with the 'Mom' comments.
Thread did not disappoint.

Abetes · 06/03/2018 11:48

What about getting your daughter to do one of those paint a mug/plate/jug things for your mum. If she has everything, it might be nice to have something personal from her grandchild.

Didiusfalco · 06/03/2018 11:56

Oh fgs! The op has asked a question about how to do something nice for her bereaved mother can people not leave off with the mum/mom debate.

I think the magazine subscription is a great idea - a present for the whole year.

NomsQualityStreets · 06/03/2018 13:13

I'm getting a photo frame with the DCs pictures in and a makeup bit she keeps talking about wanting to try out but never getting around to it.

Also, this was for my DGM but I'm sure my DM would also like it -I bought some small square canvases (4 for something like £2.49 from home bargains) and put DCs handprints on them and also stamped their names on (bought the stamps from Amazon but can probably get them in a craft shop somewhere) and put the date on.
DGM was absolutely thrilled.

Twocatsonebaby · 06/03/2018 14:45

Thanks everyone, took her out today and she picked up a persian rug. I'll definitely do the photo in a frame though of dd. :) thanks for your suggestions x

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Twocatsonebaby · 06/03/2018 14:47

Just wanted to point out. I'm of American family background. So 'mom' is something WE say.
Dont comment if You don't like it. 🙄

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BaldricksTrousers · 06/03/2018 14:50

Oldsu

I doubt someone from the USA would be asking about mothers day as in the US, it's not till May!

BaldricksTrousers · 06/03/2018 14:54

MotherofaSurvivor

Are you for real? Stop policing other people's language, you sound like an uptight nationalist snob!