My family all met up and I feel invisible AIBu

[lilypoppet]

So on Sunday, a day I was working, my brother drove my father and stepmother to take my niece out to lunch as she has had a baby. My neice lives a few doors up and the pub was very close. All the pictures of every one went on Facebook and my brother didn't even ring me to do something like pop round for a cuppa with my dad when I got in from work. They just went home, no communication with me at all. This is the second time he has done something like this. I feel invisible. AIBU?

God you sound hard work, and VERY childish, you even write in a child like way.

You SIL and brother sound unpleasant but the rest of your family also chose to exclude you each time. You need to ask them why. Its easy to grab a cab or even just call you. They chose not to even tell you they were meeting.

Stop focusing on SIL and look at the bigger picture...they all went along with it. They didnt even call you a few days before to tell you.

And going along for it for SIL is a piss poor excuse and doesnt explain why they didnt just tell you before