So can you settle an argument between me and MIL please?
DH and I have been invited to his cousins wedding. The invitation is addressed to just the two of us and not any of our children. The invitation says that the couple are sorry but they can only accommodate the children of immediate family members.
Mil thinks that that means that our children and my step children are invited. I think that the children of cousins are not immediate family members.
We could ask the couple but I don’t want to make them feel uncomfortable (I’ve never met them). Also I don’t want to take our kids to the wedding, I’d rather party without them. Mil wants them to be in formal family photos....