@PatriarchyPersonified
Firstly, the mother can do and say as she wishes. I too wouldn't be complaining if I had a black young son modelling for a huge international company. There aren't many dark skinned black boys modelling for huge brands. You don't bite the hand that feeds you.
Secondly, just because the mother says 'it's ok' doesn't mean everyone else should just crack on with their day. I've never been raped or abused but that doesn't mean I won't stand side by side with a woman who has or campaign for their rights.
Thirdly, words like 'professionally offended' and 'politically correct' are bullshit. It's a way to silence and obfuscate someone's legitimate concerns.
Fourthly, these are huge international brands. I used to work in advertising - the amount of shit you have to go through to get something approved is mad. In fact I often wondered whether I should take a vacation whilst something my team and I were working on was in the process of being approved. You have to consider absolutely everything in these global campaigns. Colours/countries/models. There is a reason why white thin blond women are so popular in international marketing campaigns. But I won't go off on that tangent.
Fifthly, I do not condone violence. What I'm talking about is the backlash that was rightly called out on social media and in the press. It was right they were called out on it. If anything I was even more pissed off by the 'sorry if' people found it offensive - a non-apology apology.
Sixthly, the days of calling someone a n*** are no longer acceptable. These days racism is insidious, it doesn't necessarily present in a candid form. So I won't ever accept "innocent mistake" as a reason why these things happen. Nope. These campaigns cost millions to produce and advertise - yet someone somewhere missed the fact that black people have long been called and even today considered monkeys in many quarters of the world. I'm not buying that argument.
Seventhly, I won't go into the 'I'm not racist because my cat's best friend's aunt's cousin's uncle's wife is black'. It doesn't work like that. Once you have experienced and seen something - you cannot unsee it. It doesn't mean you go looking for it everywhere and as I actually said upthread - I personally can't see the issue with this particular shirt. But there is a reason why these things still happen.