To ask how you kiss?

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So. Weird q! Im a 24 year old girl, reasonably attractive, have met lots of boys and had “things” but never full sex and not yet had a serious relationship... lots of nights out have ended in drunken songs however and I would consider myself a good kisser I think?! But it got me thinking - what is a good kisser? How do you actually do it?! At the risk of TMI, I normally do the alohabet thing: so when going in will use my tongue to “draw” letters on theirs - stops it being too tonguey and adds some interest. No complaints yet... please help

The alphabet thing sounds like it would lead to excessive tongue. Less is more on that front...

Rosamund I'm now dead tempted to go for the 'only in it for the cash' peck 😂

I don't like kissing.I'd much rather just get down to the sex.

At 24 I still called myself a girl (do still now and I'm 30) so I don't think that is particularly weird, but everything else about the post suggests a 14 year old not a 24 year old.

That poem is marvellous.

Even the most unlikely of threads can give you a rare treat.

"Even the most unlikely of threads can give you a rare treat."

Sorry but that made me snort a little 😂

@sinceyouask - beautiful. What’s the original language?

@citycrashrocker - I agree wholeheartedly.

I actually don’t fully get the poem but I like it.

Russian, it's by Anna Akhmatova, called The Guest.

The alphabet thing must make a lot of saliva methinks

I did the alphabet thing when I was your age OP but now I'm 43 I do the twelve times table and sometimes my shopping list too.

AIBU to ask WTF is the alphabet thing? How come everyone else has heard of this?

Is it a yoof thing I'm too old to know about?!

As often as possible, and only with other woman

Well just the one these days.

Other women damnit autocucumber work with me

AIBU to ask WTF is the alphabet thing? How come everyone else has heard of this?

I thought that was for oral? Seems awfully full on for kissing [confused

I also do my shopping list dickie, when I get to pombear it really knocks his socks off.

autocucumber pmsl

Please tell me that wasn't deliberate?!

His torpid eyes were fixed
unblinking on my ring.

I'm not really in to rimming.

If you're doing the alphabet thing, it's important to spell out "I really love you". Follow this up with "please marry me".

Concentrate really, really hard on his answer.

Alphabet kissing??

Upper or lower case or a mixture?

Ha Valentine you could totally interpret the whole poem differently :)

Do you actually do the whole alphabet? Not sure I could be bothered kissing for that long.

OP hasn't been back. Perhaps "she" is busy tongue-kissing this whole thread.

You're putting way too much thought into this........

And someone drawing on my tongue with their tongue sounds waaaaay too much tongue! Gross.

Maybe it's just my DH and I but even sex kissing we only slip a bit of tongue so they touch for a moment. Kissing's about lips, not having both your open mouths creating a huge tongue dance cavern.....that's how I kissed at like 13.....gross.

YMMV of course...

Upper or lower case or a mixture?
Doesn't matter but always cursive.

If someone's using comic sans, you should dump them.

Serif typefaces are a sign of true dedication.