To ask what you would do about this?

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DP has his ex's initials (as if they were married) on his wrist from when they were together. We are due to be married this year and I have been hassling him to get rid of it , plus he wants it gone too.
A laser removal will cost around £400, which is money we can't really spare right now. A cover up might be tricky but a more cost effective way of hiding the initials .
AIBU to ask what is best to do ?!

I'd cut 400 off the wedding budget and have it gone...

I think I may do that. Infuriating that it only cost £70 in the first place , such a blooming waste of money.

Change your name to her intitals ?

But in all seriousness, I have been hassling him to get rid of it if you are that insecure about his past, you really should be thinking twice whether getting married is for you.

I said this on another thread but have a look on Groupon - there's usually loads of offers for laser removal

Can’t he just wear a watch to cover it up?

He does wear a watch but it doesn't cover it unfortunately.

DH had it hidden under a new tatoo.

I'm sure someone more knowledge worthy can confirm or rubbish this, but I was under the impression that laser tattoo removal still leaves a faded version of the tattoo so there may be a risk that you can still see the outline of it? I think a cover up might work better.

Just get a cover up! It will be much cheaper!

My friend has been getting a tiny star removed off the back of her neck for about a year now. It’s still there, it’s clearly a star just a distorted and broken one, it was quite dainty and cute to begin with. She has to do it for employment so covering up wasn’t an option. I think he should just get a tattoo to cover it.

Initials on the wrist doesn't sound like it would be very big. Can you really not just ignore it? If he wants it gone then I'd probably opt for a cover up, it'll be cheaper and less painful!

My dad has a massive chest piece with doves carrying a heart with my mums name across the middle. He got a black line put through the name when he remarried

This foundation is marketed as being able to cover tattoos up. Might be a cheap way to cover it for the wedding until you can save up to have it removed.

www.superdrug.com/Make-Up/Face/Foundation/L%27Oreal-Infallible-Total-Cover-Foundation-10-Porcelain/p/724046

I could ignore it but he wants it gone too , not an ideal thing to start married life on is it?! Maybe I'm being over sensitive.

I’d just get a big X tattooed over it

I know it’s not ideal but, is it really a big deal?

My dp had a tattoo on this forearm he got stupidly at 16 which he then grew to hate and managed to get it covered quite reasonably priced around £70 (significantly less than laser removal) has he any ideas of any patterns etc he likes he could ideally get to cover it

if you both really want it removed, get it removed.

Tattoo fixers. Get it incorporated into another tattoo. Probably a lot cheaper and more effective than removal.

It would actually be cheaper than £400 to get your name changed by deed poll.

...or chop his arm off?

Get it covered up with another design?

or cover with this...

I don't think you're unreasonable or insecure to not want another woman's initials on your new husbands wrist. Hardly ideal is it.

The cheaper option would be a coverup tattoo, or like others have said take it from the wedding budget (his stuff of course ) and get it gone.

this...

Gods no, not Tattoo Fixers. He'll go in with a 5cm tattoo & end up coming out like this!

What are the initials? Maybe we can th8nk of someth8ng else they might mean?