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Dubai for a holiday

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user1492877024 · 24/02/2018 21:51

Apologies in advance for posting here instead of the travel section, it's just that I know AIBU gets more traffic. DH and I are considering visiting Dubai for a week and I was wondering if anyone could advise on the best time to visit, places to stay and eat etc. Am struggling between visiting Omen or going to Dubai. Has anyone visited both places?

Any advice would be very much appreciated.

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JaneyEJones · 25/02/2018 13:27

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SilverySurfer · 25/02/2018 13:28

I don't need to justify my life to a bunch of twitchy, leftie housewives who feel like they are worldly wise because they have read about Dubai in the Guardian. I just feel sorry for them. I can't imagine being that provincial and narrow.

I'm not sure how much more wrong you could be. I'm unmarried, have voted Tory all my life and wouldn't read the Guardian if you paid me.

I feel sorry for people who are prepared to ignore the slave labour that has built Dubai and continues to this day. I can't imagine being that unimaginative and vacuous to enjoy somewhere like that but hey, let's not forget the shopping Hmm

GoneGirl · 25/02/2018 13:36

@Luckything50 ODFO with your Croydon on Sea comment.

Snob

BeverlyHillsBillie · 25/02/2018 13:39

The shopping is crap actually. There is just an awful lot of it. But it's the same chain stores over and over again ad infinitum.

There's nothing much you can buy in Dubai that you can't buy somewhere else for less, including the UK. And there is very little in the way of worthwhile souvenirs to take home either. Unless you like cuddly camels and salt and pepper pots that look like men in white thobes and women in black abayas. actually they are pretty cool.

Westbaywendy · 25/02/2018 13:43

I don't think I would fly long haul to Dubai for a holiday. It's nice for a long weekend. Many far more beautiful places like Sri Lanka and Oman.

ThatEscalatedQuickly · 25/02/2018 13:44

I'm slightly baffled by the idea that any criticism comes from ignorance. I could just as easily claim that extolling the virtues as against the negatives is a form of wilful ignorance.

Someone having a different view to you doesn't make them ignorant. I've lived abroad in quite a few places for work and I've seen many an expat happy to live in their bubble, ignoring the reality around them while they sun, shop, live the high life with their cheap domestic help etc.

KimchiLaLa · 25/02/2018 13:48

Op, Oman and Dubai are vastly different. If I'm honest if you like trendy restaurants, decent (but expensive) shopping and more modern infrastructure, don't go to Oman. Oman is more about beautiful natural water sights and is a lot quieter. I love dubai, we went to Oman on our babymoon and I missed the buzz of dubai. You could always do both in one trip.

KimchiLaLa · 25/02/2018 13:52

I'd highly recommend the Shangri La just outside Muscat. Stay at Al Husn if you don't have children with you. It's blissful.

Yes shangri la is nice, the kids part is full of kids though. As I said it was our babymoon trip and DH couldn't get a room
In the adults only part so we ended up in the kids part. Great for a babymoon! Was ok though.

BeverlyHillsBillie · 25/02/2018 14:02

Actually, if there is one thing it isn't it's Blackpool, or Croydon on Sea.

Not a mobility scooter in sight, very few obese people around compared to the UK, zero unemployment, no-one on benefits, no Bingo, no betting shops, no really rough pubs, no people who look like they might appear on Jeremy Kyle any minute, no social problems, relatively little public drunkenness or fighting, (and when that happens it's usually thanks to the British/Irish doing what they do best Hmm ) very little crime, no highly visible issues with drug abuse or homelessness, no mentally unwell people left to rot on the streets.

Everyone there is either on holiday or they are there with a purpose that gets them up in the morning, functioning and contributing.

I can't speak for the quality of the tourists but the expats who live there (and in Qatar where I live) tend to be professionals, nurses and teachers, people in management, self made business men and women or those who have highly sought after engineering and construction skills. That's why they are there.

You can say what you like about it, but it's NOTHING like walking down the high street of a depressing downmarket UK town with its boarded up shops and its air of menace and hopelessness.

Jassmells · 25/02/2018 14:08

I was a bit disappointed in Dubai. I stupidly imagined it would be scale of New York but it's tiny. It is worth seeing for the sheer opulence but I can't say I'd rush back.

specialsubject · 25/02/2018 14:37

I have also only changed planes there, I am not surprised that a Muslim country doesn't have betting shops, bingo or rough pubs!

With their punishments, also not surprised you don't see drunks or druggies. The UK is a rather softer touch on that. And does it have a benefits system?

No mobility scooters, eh? Does that mean miraculously no disabled people?

SusanneLinder · 25/02/2018 14:38

We can't go to Dubai, even on a stopover due to DH's meds, unless we get special pernission from the UAE Health People. Or risk arrest.
Far too much hassle for us. Never fancied it much, but each to their own.

ThatEscalatedQuickly · 25/02/2018 14:43

Not a mobility scooter in sight, very few obese people around compared to the UK, zero unemployment, no-one on benefits, no Bingo, no betting shops, no really rough pubs, no people who look like they might appear on Jeremy Kyle any minute, no social problems, relatively little public drunkenness or fighting, (and when that happens it's usually thanks to the British/Irish doing what they do best hmm ) very little crime, no highly visible issues with drug abuse or homelessness, no mentally unwell people left to rot on the streets.

Ever wondered why you don't see those things?

IHaveBrilloHair · 25/02/2018 14:50

Ouch, the mobility scooter comments t was a bit below the belt Shock

BeverlyHillsBillie · 25/02/2018 15:12

I don't need to wonder, I know exactly why.

And yes, the mobility scooter comment was a bit below the belt, I apologise for that, I was just trying to paint a picture of what you don't see there, when people were comparing it to run down towns in the UK.

SusanneLinder · 25/02/2018 15:21

Are mobility scooters only for poor people in rundown towns then?
What do rich people that can't walk do?

Weedsnseeds1 · 25/02/2018 15:21

I have been to Dubai for work several times and Oman for holiday. Overall I preferred Oman, but liked Dubai more than I thought I would.
Public transport is good in Dubai but there isn't much to see, Oman I would suggest hiring a car to get out and about ( the roads are good and petrol is extremely cheap).

19lottie82 · 25/02/2018 15:25

“We can't go to Dubai, even on a stopover due to DH's meds, unless we get special pernission from the UAE Health People. Or risk arrest.”

19lottie82 · 25/02/2018 15:28

Whoops clicked too soon there! As per my above quote...... are you sure? My DH has to take Amitriptiline for various reasons and we researched before we went and all we had to take was a copy of his prescription and make sure he only took enough for our stay. Some people take a letter from their doctor too, but I don’t think it’s really necessary.

The UAE isn’t out to stop people from taking medication into the country that they actually need and have been legitimately prescribed, they just want to make sure you’re not abusing it or plan on selling it on.

HeresMe · 25/02/2018 15:32

Wouldn't go again, if you paid me.
All it is, is a big soulless made up place in the desert built with slavery, women are treated like possessions, and the Saudis go to carry out there drinking and sordid debauchery.

To the poster who said you don't see drunken pubs mobility scooters ect there is a reason for that, but I don't think in blackpool, slave labour is made to do work until he or she breaks.

If you want to go somewhere like that go to Vegas it's not pretending to be anything it's not.

IHaveBrilloHair · 25/02/2018 15:39

I'm now curious as to how disabled Emeratis get about?Confused
I haven't been there but even if it were my dream destination and I was going, my lungs and bones wouldn't miraculously be cured and I'd need either a wheelchair and someone to push it or a mobility scooter to get around.
(Fwiw whilst I don't like how it was built, I've been to other places with bad human rights records so I'm not up my own arse about it, it just doesn't appeal to me)

BusterGonad · 25/02/2018 15:45

I think Dubai nationals who are disabled more than likely get looked after at home and probably don't really get out much.
I know from living in Qatar that the older generation are homebodies and looking after family members is very important to them.
As far as I gather their homes are where they entertain, and they take great pride in making them beautiful and filling them with everything you could dream of.

Westbaywendy · 25/02/2018 15:51

All new builds in Qatar have to have an ensuite downstairs bedroom with light switches etc at the correct height to comply with regulations. Positive discrimination for locals with a physical disability is strong in my company (government) at least. I can't speak for others but promotion of women and those with physical disabilities is open and high on the agenda for locals.
50% of decision makers will be female by 2030.

BusterGonad · 25/02/2018 15:56

I could not imagine how hard it must be to get about Qatar in a wheelchair, I struggled with two perfectly good working legs!!!!

Westbaywendy · 25/02/2018 16:28

It sounds like it was a while ago