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If i pay childcare until 6.30pm, surely that means i can collect my child any time up until 6.30pm?

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KettleAlwaysBoiling · 23/02/2018 18:54

Just had a bit of a ticking off from the manager of my daughter's after school care! Feeling a bit confused and embarrassed.

I've recently switched before/after school childcare companies as I needed somewhere open until 6.30pm. I live quite rurally and this place advertises itself as being the only childcare in X open past 6pm.

I usually collect DD around 6pm but a few times over the past few weeks it has been 6.25pm.

She's a big girl near the end of primary school so there is no need for any 'catch up' such as you might expect with babies or young children. So i don't need to allow any time for this. There's no signing out or anything like that. It's simply - open the door, take coat/bag from the hook, shout cheerio. Pick up time takes no longer than two minutes maximum.

Tonight I collected DD at 6pm and the manager took me aside to discuss my collection times. She said she wanted to remind me that her staff finish at 6.30pm as that is all they are paid until. She said she has never had to consider introducing a 'late' fee before but might have to unless I'm more punctual. I double checked that their clock is the same time as my watch/phone clock. I told her that me and DD were always out the door by 6.30pm. She said that her staff report i didn't actually leave until 6.29pm the other night, and they ended up having to stay until 6.45pm to do all the last minute jobs they couldn't do while DD was there.

I said that I can't guarantee what time I'll get there each evening but can promise it will always be before 6.30pm. I reminded her that this is the reason i've put DD specifically into this childcare place - because i need care past 6pm.

The conversation ended rather awkwardly and she just said that all parents will be getting a letter next week about lateness/late fees.

Surely this is more of a managerial issue than a parent one? I pay for childcare up until 6.30pm. But staff are sometimes having to stay until 6.45pm to do the jobs needing done after all children have left. She needs to extend their hours i would think.

Any ideas what I can do, going forwards? I'm obviously going to be contesting any late fees added on to my bill since i'm always out of there by 6.30pm. I might also suggest they do introduce a sign out book so it's documented what time i've collected DD.

I really need this place to work out as i absolutely do need childcare past 6pm some nights. Also, DD seems to really love it!

OP posts:
CoraPirbright · 27/02/2018 19:26

Did you email them OP?

beanii · 28/02/2018 11:00

OP please come back :)

KettleAlwaysBoiling · 02/03/2018 19:36

Hi all - sorry i've not been back for an update. Thanks so much for all the advice and replies. The manager hasn't been back as she's been off sick and now the place has been closed since Wednesday due to the horrendous snow and heating issues!

I probably won't hear anything until Monday now.

OP posts:
Shadow666 · 03/03/2018 14:00

Thanks for updating. Hope you get it sorted.

viques · 05/03/2018 18:34

Just bumping to remind @kettlealwaysboiling that some of us are standing here clutching our teabags!

ChocolateWombat · 05/03/2018 18:39

Yes, hoping for a clear victory here. No need for grovelling apologies, just acknowledgement that yes, if you pay until 6.30 you can collect anytime until then and exactly when staff are finished work and free to leave is up to them to sort out and nothing to do with you.

Did you email OP or just having a conversation about it? Did you ask for the contract?

Lorddenning1 · 06/03/2018 19:35

Any update Op

bananamonkey · 13/03/2018 13:55

Am I the only one still invested in the outcome? Grin

71Juniper71 · 13/03/2018 13:59

It's breach of contract on their part if they don't let you collect at 6.30pm on the dot and no earlier. It takes seconds to get a child out.

People do take advantage. We had a dailiy nanny and if ever there was a habit of one of us getting home a bit earlier the leaving time gets earlier and earlier (better to sit in your car or go to a cafe for 10 minutes than get home early i suspect sometimes otherwise people assume by conduct you have changed the collection time)

MichaelBendfaster · 13/03/2018 14:06

banana, no, I'm gagging to know too Grin

Dondie · 13/03/2018 14:08

I would email her to clarify so it is in writing - say you understood that you were contracted and paying for childcare until 6.30pm, but following your conversation childcare is now not available to 6.30pm. Ask what time childcare is available until and if there is a fee reduction due to the new opening hours.

This is perfect, I think it’s about the 3rd response you got. Definitely do this.

mummyhaschangedhername · 13/03/2018 14:22

Any update OP?

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