On a lighter note heathersmom I am now wiser and laughing at your post. I had no idea what a twink is, but apparently, Urban Dictionary says The stereotypical twink is 18-22, slender with little or no body hair, often blonde, dresses in club wear even at 10:00 AM, and is not particularly intelligent. A twink is the gay answer to the blonde bimbo cheerleader.
So OP, and I do mean this very gently and kindly and with my school teacher's hat on, which I'm quite prepared to be mocked for, maybe choose your words a little more carefully? It's very, very easy to make mistakes and when they're online, you can't take them back - they live forever.