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Would you consider secondary school options when buying a house with a 3 year old DD?

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Absofrigginlootly · 17/02/2018 23:31

DH, DD and I have been living overseas in the states for nearly 3 years. We're planning to come back to the uk this summer and after moving every 1-3 years for the past 18 years I am ready to SETTLE!!

I want a house for us to live in for the next 15 or so years to see DD and any future sibling through school.

The area we are looking at (dictated somewhat by job) is about 10 miles north of a nice city in the countryside. It has many (about 15-20) good/outstanding primary schools (as rated by OFSTED obvs so I appreciate this is highly subjective) in the area which are in catchment and because they're all small local village primaries they are all undersubscribed so I think the chances of getting a place at one are pretty good.

My issue is that the 2 or 3 nearest secondary schools within catchment are currently rated as inadequate/requiring improvement. There are several good and one outstanding secondary schools further away which appear to be in catchment but obviously these are oversubscribed.

How far in advance would you be considering school options when buying a house when your DC were only 3.5....??

We have flexibility about where we live at this point and could choose to buy in the city where there are good/outstanding primary and secondary schools (although obvs these are oversubscribed).... but my heart is in the countryside. I grew up in the countryside and lived in cities my adult life. I'm craving the simple, outdoorsy childhood for my DC that I was fortunate to experience.

Anyone who has been through both primary and secondary school application process - any advice?

Should we be thinking more about the immediate future i.e. live somewhere we like now and find a good school for next January applications (DD will be due to start September 2019) and just deal with secondary school later?

Or should we be playing the long game here? I really don't want to move again!

Although obviously I know life can't be planned to perfection I'm just so looking forward to being settled!

MN jury.... WWYD?

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CharisMater · 18/02/2018 19:34

That seems so sensible but I didn't send either of my dc to the schools I thought I wanted for them. I wanted my DD to be able to walk to school and not be reliant on a bus so I sent her to a convent! I didn't see that one coming when she was 3 believe me. And my son, he got in to a great school not too far away but I don't believe it's right for him so I am picking a school that didn't exist five years ago. I would buy a house with good transport networks in an area you like

Absofrigginlootly · 19/02/2018 17:30

Wow a convent?! Yes I don't think I'd see that one coming either! Grin

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