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To not understand how you can be so ignorant and unaware of the world around you that you still flush wet wipes and tampons down the toilet?

331 replies

A580Hojas · 14/02/2018 18:50

How is it even possible in the information age?

I reckon a huge number of people know they shouldn't do it but flush anyway in the hope they will get away with it and they won't be the one having to dig out any resulting blockage.

Much like the hundreds of thousands of cunts who chuck their litter out of car windows - out of sight out of mind.

Gets me down, it does.

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MaryPoppinsPenguins · 14/02/2018 18:57

To play devils advocate... sometimes there isn’t an option.

CarolineForbes · 14/02/2018 18:59

Totally agree. I work in an industry where we deal with the resulting blockages. Please don’t do it guys!

HMC2000 · 14/02/2018 18:59

Someone will be on in a minute to say that they only flush the wipes marked 'flushable'. Sigh.

A580Hojas · 14/02/2018 19:00

No option?

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Cherrycokewinning · 14/02/2018 19:01

I think your attitude is quite strange tbh. Can’t you imagine how many people there are who don’t take in information? Give me some examples as to where I would get it from.

KungFuEric · 14/02/2018 19:02

I don't buy the no option. If I'm on my period and at someone else's home Ive wrapped a used tampon and placed it into a nappy sack and taken it with me in my bag if they didn't have a bin facility.

The toilet isn't a bin.

MaryPoppinsPenguins · 14/02/2018 19:02

Yes, no option. What if there is no bin, and you have no bag.

Abracadabraapileofbollocks · 14/02/2018 19:03

There's always an option. Dispose of your litter properly. This means being prepared with suitable bags for litter as you may have to take it elsewhere Hmm

LittleFeileFooFoo · 14/02/2018 19:03

I'm with you, op. The option is you wrap it up good and take it to the nearest bin. Flushing is never an option. This is from a landlord who had to pay ridiculous sums to replace part of the sewer line jacked up by sanitary napkins(not even tampons!).

CaptainMarvelDanvers · 14/02/2018 19:03

I used to do it when I was a teenager and I was mortified and didn’t understand how to get rid of them. I found the who,e saga embarrassing.

Now I don’t give a shit and I just wrap them up in the packet and put them in a doggy bag then out in the bin.

SunnySkiesSleepsintheMorning · 14/02/2018 19:03

YABU. Some people are just not educated or have never discussed it or just never knew. They’re not doing or maliciously. Sick of these silly judgements.

Fauchelevent · 14/02/2018 19:05

I mean, It’s definitely depressing but some people genuinely don’t know. I didn’t know until I knew.

FingersCrossedHard · 14/02/2018 19:06

I flush tampons but not wipes. Tbh not flushing tampons has never occurred to me, I always have.

Madonnasmum · 14/02/2018 19:07

I didn't know til I came on mumsnet. Where does it say?

hannahintheworks · 14/02/2018 19:08

I absolutely didn’t know you weren’t meant to flush tampons?!? I assumed as they are made from cotton wool and paper type that it would break down. I know wet wipes don’t but have been educated in tampon disposal!!

TheOnlyLivingBoyInNewCross · 14/02/2018 19:08

Well, people should get educated.

Why is ignorance such an acceptable defence?

SleepingStandingUp · 14/02/2018 19:09

Yes, no option. What if there is no bin, and you have no bag
So you're somewhere there is no bin but you can remove your tampon. You can also presumably replace it? Do you flush the wrapper down the loo too? Where were you crying your new tampon? Webster is this place that you're changing it?

HarveyKietelRabbit · 14/02/2018 19:09

How is it possible in the information age?

Very possible. I flushed tampons for YEARS until a MN thread a few years ago said not to. I wasn't selfish, ignorant or whatever could be suggested. When I started using tampons in the 90s it said on the leaflet that they were flushable. So I did. As did everyone I knew.

Funnily enough after a couple of months of using tampons I didn't read the leaflets anymore because I didn't need the instructions! So it passed me by when the information changed.

Whatshallidonowpeople · 14/02/2018 19:09

What do you do if the tampon falls out as soon as you sit down due to the weight of the "contents"? Fish it out?

ScreamingValenta · 14/02/2018 19:10

YANBU. I had to pay £££ to have our drains flushed out - they were blocked with antibacterial wipes - not ours as we don't even buy the wretched things. Unfortunately, the waste water was belching up through the manhole in our garden, rather than the garden of whatever idiot flushed them Sad.

Cherrycokewinning · 14/02/2018 19:10

“Today 19:08 TheOnlyLivingBoyInNewCross

Well, people should get educated.

Why is ignorance such an acceptable defence?”

If they didn’t got out of their way to research it, how would they know? It’s only MN that rattles on about it incessantly.

Ask any plumber there are plenty of people doing it.

You’re ignorant about loads of things, why aren’t others allowed to be? No one knows everything

bobstersmum · 14/02/2018 19:11

I get you! But if you want to moan there was a post yesterday that someone's new bloke flushed his empty sweet /chocolate /crisps packets down the loo, go find him and let your fury loose!

Sofabitch · 14/02/2018 19:11

I didn't know you can't flush tampons. It's not something that really comes up in everyday conversation or Google searches..

Pleasedontdrawonyoursister · 14/02/2018 19:11

I had no idea about tampons until very recently after a MN thread. None of my friends knew either!

5plusMeAndHim · 14/02/2018 19:11

I don't think people are ignorant and unaware, I think it is more they just don't care.It make s life easier for them so why not?

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