I'm supposed to be a bridesmaid for a very good friend however today she told me she is considering dropping me from being a bridesmaid. I can't go to her hen do due to money and health reason and today she has told me that because she loves me she is deciding if I should be her bridesmaid or do her wedding cake (I offered to do her cake to save her money because I was her friend) but now she is saying because of my health she is no longer convinced I can be a bridesmaid and make her cake. She is saying it would be better for me to let her decide which one she wants. She constantly reiterated the fact this was all to do with me and my health and how she wants me to be OK. I explained that I could do both as the cake will be done over numerous days prior to the wedding. She says she isn't pushing me out because I'll still have some photos taken with her but I feel like I've been kicked in the teeth. AIBU to no longer want to do her wedding cake? I feel like she is pushing me out so why should I help with her cake. In fact I'm considering not going at all to the wedding. Another bridesmaid has said she cannot go on the hen do but she can still be a bridesmaid, this confims she is purely kicking me out based on my health. I don't know how to react to all of this. Any advice please?