I remember being a child. I had one dress to my name and when I woke up in the morning in the winter there was frost on the inside of the windows. My mum had to get up an hour earlier than us so she could light the fire in the dining room and it would be warm for us to eat our breakfast in before school. There was no heating in the kitchen though. I had one school skirt and jumper and that had to last all week. I think I had 3 or 4 shirts to my name and we had to make sure we didn't drop dinner down it otherwise we could run out of shirts by the end of the week. We had holidays, but never abroad and always self-catering.
My mother worked as well as my father but there was no childcare, and no nurseries so she could only do part time stuff. Sometimes she would be late home from work and we would be waiting on the doorstep after school for her. Nobody called social services!
Having a bath was ok but there was no heating in the bathroom so it was cold getting in and getting out, but when my parents fitted a rubber hose to the taps with a shower head and a shower curtain it was amazing. We only had hot water once or twice a week as it was so expensive so still had a Sunday bath and if lucky could manage a quick shower with the rubber hose in the week! But only in the summer because it was so cold getting out otherwise.
I bought my first house at 20. We never went out to eat or even just for a drink as we couldn't afford that and a mortgage. I didn't have a car and bought a second hand bike to get to work. It cost fifteen pounds and I paid it off at £3 a week for 5 weeks. I used to work overtime for four hours on a Saturday morning to save up to buy a car, and a couple of hours every evening whenever there was work. My partner took a second job at a pub three times a week to help pay the mortgage.
We couldn't afford furniture but my grandmother had died and had a sofa and a bed, and a chest of drawers which we had. I also had her single tub washing machine with a mangle which kept us going for a couple of years. I eventually bought the washing machine on credit but you had to save up at least 50 per cent of the cost then before you could get credit.
I rarely bought new clothes as they were relatively quite expensive then. I did go to jumble sales and second hand clothes shops and bought quite a few things from there.
We didn't have a telly for some years as we couldn't really justify the cost of a tv license, let alone afford the cost of a tv.
If you arranged to meet somebody, you had to stick to the agreed time and place because there was no mobile phones to change the time or place. If you were too late, the chances are they would have given up. I lost a couple of boyfriends because I was rubbish at getting to places on time. I had to walk most of the time as I couldn't afford the bus.
Not everybody could afford phones, but we did have one because my dad did a bit of car trading. You couldn't say anything personal though because it was a party line and anybody could have been listening.
If we wanted anything like a new coat, or a piece of furniture we saved up for it. If we couldn't save up for it then we didn't have it.
I earned my retirement at 52. So to those who say it is really tough now to afford a house. It was really tough back then too. We just did without stuff to afford it.