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AIBU to thank the Mumsnetter who suggested lube....

73 replies

ChefsFloozie · 12/02/2018 18:27

.....to style curly hair??

I was fairly dubious but for less than £3 I thought I would give it a go. Still refining the amount to put on and adding a bit of conditioner to it too so it's not so crispy but I've got some great curls that I haven't seen for ages.

So thank you whoever you were!

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WifeofDarth · 12/02/2018 21:39

Watching with interest for more info. And yes, another one picturing lube being applied to hair with a fish slice!

WifeofDarth · 12/02/2018 21:40

Ollivander Which Cantu products do you recommend? I got the conditioner and one of the gels the other day and have used once. OK but still a bit frizzy.

Ollivander84 · 12/02/2018 21:43

I use
Co wash - as I am or a normal conditioner
Condition - shea low porosity
Products - cantu activator and curl custard plus lube
Mizani supreme hair oil to scrunch out the crunch

AIBU to thank the Mumsnetter who suggested lube....
Tomorrowillbeachicken · 12/02/2018 21:53

Please don’t use Vaseline as a lube if you use a condom

Lovetunnocks · 12/02/2018 21:55

Ollivander - we have v similar hair. I used Aussie shampoo, then deva curl conditioner and gel - which isn't crunchy. But it's all v expensive. Haven't had much success with co-washing, I go a bit lank. Must try again though. Do you use regular KY?

Ollivander84 · 12/02/2018 21:58

No, I use lubidoo water based but at the moment am trying intimate earth as it's glycerine free and seems to be better for my hair Smile

Trills · 12/02/2018 21:59

Is that four products on your hair then Ollivander?
activator
custard
lube
oil

HoneyDragon · 12/02/2018 22:04

Oh yay, I’m glad it worked. I use it after refreshing my hair in the morning to make it bloody behave.

I really like the cheap Tesco blue gel too.

I don’t get on brilliantly with Cantu custard, it’s good but the scent really irritates my eyes for some reason Confused

Ollivander. Your curls Envy

Almostfifty · 12/02/2018 22:07

DO NOT use Vaseline on hair. It does not wash out and cornflour is needed to get rid of it!

HoneyDragon · 12/02/2018 22:10

Almostfifty

More please. This sounds worth hearing Grin

WifeofDarth · 12/02/2018 22:15

Thanks ollivander it's the cantu custard that I tried and it's not amazing but will try the activator - there are just so many it's tricky to work out what's what. Great curls by the way !

Ollivander84 · 12/02/2018 22:15

Trills- yep. The activator is maybe a £1 size amount, I use loads of the custard, a tiny blob of lube and a drop of oil

GiraffeCat · 12/02/2018 22:19

One top tip I've tried for the shea moisture curling gel soufflé is to mix it with water - too much of it makes my hair sticky. But, add a fingertips worth to a travel spray bottle of plain water and spritz liberally when you would apply gel. Scrunch and allow to dry. Then break the cast. Amazing curls happened! 😊

amusedbush · 13/02/2018 16:36

Ollivander84

Your hair is gorgeous! I cowash but my hair hates Cantu, even if the curl custard smells like delicious pina colada Grin

Spangles1963 · 13/02/2018 17:38

PositivelyPERF Yes I did too!

TheArtOfNoise · 13/02/2018 17:50

What is co wash? Not heard of it before. Beautiful curls Olivander

woodlanddreamer · 13/02/2018 18:14

Co-wash = conditioner wash

Daisymalone · 13/02/2018 18:23

I'm trying this next time I wash my hair! 😀

BlackeyedSusan · 13/02/2018 18:25

still waitng, with the others, to know if you curled it with the fish slice.

MissionItsPossible · 13/02/2018 18:28

What thread was that again? I remember reading the comment but pretty sure the actual thread was about something totally different..

TovaGoldCoin · 13/02/2018 20:04

I accidentally used my bottle of lube for a week instead of serum. Ingredients are about the same, andmy hair looked glossy..

winglesspegasus · 13/02/2018 22:31

www.kemioyl.com/care.html

LittleLights · 13/02/2018 22:37

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LittlePaintBox · 13/02/2018 23:46

What thread was that again? I remember reading the comment but pretty sure the actual thread was about something totally different..

IIRC, it was about how to get a pan off a ceramic hob after it had got stuck there. Lube and a fish slice worked for someone, apparently.

IfyouseeRitaMoreno · 14/02/2018 09:33

There's such a such a fine line between having moisturized curls and looking like a greasy chip.

I love the Creme of Nature Argan spritzer but too much of it makes the hair greasy, so I half and half it with water.