Ex was meant to be having dd for half term week.
I had pestered him to get arrangements as he is never forth coming and we we had agreed to meet half way on Saturday. He lives 2 hours away.
I cannot afford the petrol and have said yestetday that i can no longer meet him there and to let me know when is ok for him to collect her.
It's all kicked off and ive been subjected to 24 hrs of abuse. He refuses to live by my rules apparently. But the fact he has seen dd for 4 days since the end of nov and ive gladly done the extra and not said a word nor recieved any extra payment for doing so.
We have been separated for longer than we were married and I just don't know what to do. As it stands I now don't know if he is having dd at all.
He moves either away in the summer and it won't be practical to do so much driving all the time .
But, aibu about this?
Dd is 12 and has a terrible relationship with him. She was only planning on going to make it fair and to see her half brother.
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
AIBU?
Aibu to not make this trip for my ex husband?
36 replies
Quiddichcup · 09/02/2018 10:18
OP posts:
Don’t want to miss threads like this?
Weekly
Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!
Log in to update your newsletter preferences.
You've subscribed!
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.