The vast majority of people in UK society are going backwards through no fault of their own.
When you are growing up, and pretty much everyone around you is a homeowner, and saying ‘one day when you buy a house,’ it becomes a normal expectation that you too will one day own a house
My parents, In-Laws, all my Aunties and Uncles, friends of family (late 50’s - mid 70’s), and all my friends parents own properties. And when I say ‘own’, I mean ‘own’ - their mortgages have been paid off, and for quite some time too. Two of them own large flats in city centres, whilst the rest own houses with large gardens, conservatories, attics and extensions. Two of them own two or three properties each which they ‘rent’ to their children, as there is no way they can get on the ladder, and their parents were sick and tired of seeing them bust their arses in order to live in tiny, shitty rented flats and having to put thoughts of having children on the backburner.
Only one of the above has a Degree-Level qualification from a college, about three have A Levels, but the vast majority only have GCSE level qualifications. They however all acquired mortgages in their early twenties, and didn’t have to produce the same kind of ridiculous evidence of everything that you have to now in order to get one.
On the other hand, My DH and I have Postgraduate level qualifications, and all of our friends either have the same, or at least an Undergraduate Degree (with the exception of 1 who only has A Levels). Only two of us have mortgages (flats with no gardens or lifts), acquired these in our late twenties, and wouldn’t have been able to have done so without incredibly generous donations from family.
Of our family members who are a similar age to my DH and I, roughly half have Degrees, the rest have GCSE’s or Diplomas - none have a mortgage.
I am a huge believer in education, but we have been pedalled the idea, (almost brainwashed), that education will be our ticket to everything we need, want and more. That education will allow us to progress and enable us to be even better off than our parents. What a fucking joke! If this was the case, all of my friends and family with Degrees should surely own houses, and these should be larger and better than those of our parents? We certainly don’t, and family of same age with only GCSE’s/Diploma’s are in the same position. We were ‘told’ by the system that people without Degrees would be ‘left behind,’ but we would be landed some kind of golden ticket - no, we’re all in the same fucking sinking boat.
It really doubly hurts for people like my family and I, as my grandparents moved into brand new council houses on new estates, and were pedalled the idea of everything being rosy, and that they can live somewhere nice, and with gardens too. They were so proud of their houses and took great care of them, and encouraged their children to obtain a better education than they had, and that they would then be able to own a house ‘nicer than Mum & Dad’s. That certainly happened for my parents, and my friends’ parents who had grown up in council houses. The ‘grandchildren’ who grew up in privately owned houses and have the highest levels of education in the family get the worst end of the deal. We are truly going backwards.