I feel like I’ve had enough but thought I’d get other opinions.
He’s lazy around the house, will happily walk past rubbish on the floor/any mess, will stuff the kitchen bin full of rubbish instead of emptying it, leaves his clothes all over the landing or his side of the bed then asks “where’s this where’s that”, smokes outside the front door and just throws his fag butts on the lawn when I’ve left an ash tray for him to use, basically does pretty much no housework will occasionally run the hoover around downstairs, when he washes up things are still left dirty, never cooks, won’t go food shopping says he doesn’t know how or what things to get. He allowed a fine to mount up which ended up with the bailiffs at my door.
We never have sex anymore, he doesn’t seem to fussed about it either, I’m bored and I want to feel attractive and loved instead of a boring chubby Mum.
I’ve been at work this afternoon and after coming home tonight the house a mess and him lying on the sofa I just feel like I’ve had enough and would actually rather be a single Mum. Every time he finishes work his tea is waiting and the house is tidy.
Then there’s a part of me that thinks, he does go to work and earns money, he’s a good dad and we can have a laugh together. I think seeing my own mums failed relationships a man that actually works seems to be something you should be grateful for in itself!
Any advice before I speak to him tomorrow!