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Singles table at the Spa

144 replies

LimberlostGirl · 04/02/2018 14:19

Just returned from a 2 night stay at a spa (thank you DH, lovely late Christmas present). When I went down for dinner the first night I was told that I would be sat at the ‘Singles’ table as this was what people liked. I said I would prefer a table on my own to be told this was not convenient as the place was already laid for me. I spent a rather tedious dinner making small talk with people I didn’t know or wish to know. Lots of discussion about treatments they were having. I won’t go into detail but the words colonic and irrigation came up at one point. Also debate about a couple of celebrities staying there, all ‘Oo she looks awful without make up, blimey isn’t she fat’ etc. As I left the dining room I found the room host or whatever they call them and said again I would like to sit alone for future meals.

Following morning placed again at the singles table so I said no and reminded the staff member of our conversation and another table was laid up for me with a lot of huffing and puffing. Every meal time was a battle between me and the room host dragon over seating.

As I checked out I was asked how my stay had been so I said about the meal arrangements and the receptionist said ‘Oh yes we heard that someone had been very difficult about our seating policy’.

What do others think? WIBU to ask for a table to myself? I have complained about the receptionist’s attitude already.

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arethereanyleftatall · 04/02/2018 14:36

The food is bloody lovely at Champneys though.

FucksakeCuntingFuckingTwats · 04/02/2018 14:37

Thats mental. Why would any one want to sit with complete strangers. I bet loads of people just put up with it because they don't have the balls to request their own table. Can't believe the receptionist said that on check out.

Mailawaymailawaymailaway · 04/02/2018 14:38

If you mean Champneys Tring, they asked me the first night whether I would prefer the singles table (I'm sure they called it something else) or a table on my own. Because I'm antisocial, they put me on my own. No fuss.

At Henlow, when I did half fancy joining the big table, they didn't offer! Can't win...

I love Champneys Tring. It is noticeably the best one.

Gazelda · 04/02/2018 14:38

I've stayed several times at 'damp knees' in 'ding-a-ling-ling'. I've always found them very accommodating, asking where I prefer to sit, rather than presuming I'd like to sit with the singles. Offered a table next to a wall, or outside or wherever I prefer.
Sorry you had the opposite experience, I'd have hated that too, and put in a complaint about that and the receptionist's comment.

LimberlostGirl · 04/02/2018 14:42

Yes it was ’ding-a-ling’, amazing place if a little large. I got the stony stare when I suggested giving guests a map when they arrived so they didn’t get lost. I did repeatedly and was constantly asking the way to food, massage rooms, swimming pools.

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chickenowner · 04/02/2018 14:43

That's awful OP!!

Definitely complain about the unprofessional behaviour of the staff including the receptionist for that rude remark.

I would not go to a place that made me eat with strangers.

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MoaneyBoney · 04/02/2018 14:43

That is my idea of hell and would completely ruin it for me. Definitely do a review to warn others.

duffaho · 04/02/2018 14:44

Not that you would ever get me into a spa under any circumstances but IF I ever went on my own I would also make a stand against being seated arbitrarily with strangers simply on the premise that we were all singles.
One thing I hate is being made to be sociable. Im very sociable when I chose to be but its always my choice. I would complain .A choice should always be given whenever possible.

MichaelBendfaster · 04/02/2018 14:46

Can you imagine men on a business trip coming down to breakfast to be told they were all on the singles table!

Really good point.

OP, the receptionist's comment was SO out of order. Glad you've complained.

The rest of it is terrible customer service too. Refusing to let you sit where you wanted? Huffing and puffing over laying you a new table? Fuck that. Massive complaint, to head office/CEO.

LimberlostGirl · 04/02/2018 14:48

Agree the food there is lovely. Asked for a glass of wine with dinner and there was an audible intake of breath from the other ‘singles’. They offer wine so why not ask for it and I needed it sitting with a crowd of randoms.

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DreamyMcDreamy · 04/02/2018 14:51

Oh, I would HATE that! If I'd gone to a lovely spa by myself, it'd be because I would want to enjoy my own company a bit.
Not sit and make small talk with a bunch of randomers!
Feck off and leave me in peace with a book and my people watching! Grin

livefornaps · 04/02/2018 14:52

Fucking hell!!! I would have hated this! Glad you insisted on your wine.

dingdongdigeridoo · 04/02/2018 14:55

Sounds grim. I’d leave a one star review or message them on Twitter about it. Might get them to change their stupid policy.

EmpressOfJurisfiction · 04/02/2018 14:56

That's as bad as the thread about no-tech coffee shops where people are expected to talk to strangers. Champneys sounds like one to be wary of - or at least to make preferences very clear BEFORE booking!

chickenowner · 04/02/2018 14:58

My Mum and I are planning a weekend away at a spa - even though we won't be 'singles' this has still put me off Champneys!

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user1485342611 · 04/02/2018 15:03

That would be a huge turn off for me. And the receptionist sounds very rude and unprofessional.

Tapandgo · 04/02/2018 15:04

Off to Champneys tomorrow! Not alone, but if I was I’d have wanted to sit alone if I’d asked to. I’ve been to Ragdale alone and was always given a table on my own when I asked.
The attitude of the staff you describe is diabolical.

EmpressOfJurisfiction · 04/02/2018 15:05

If it helps, I'd be astonished if Champneys didn't notice this thread.

LimberlostGirl · 04/02/2018 15:08

I got the impression if you were well known/a celeb you got to sit where you wanted no questions asked. The rest were to be herded together for the staff’s convenience, save them laying up extra tables.

The offer to take home my Damp Knees slippers as a gift didn’t cut it with me as compensation.

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LimberlostGirl · 04/02/2018 15:10

I am not Jo Brand before anyone asks!

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GreatDuckCookery6211 · 04/02/2018 15:10

Yanbu. I would have hated that too.

Damp knees?

MountainsofMars · 04/02/2018 15:10

YWNBU.

Write to them, rather than leave it as you (the customer!) being 'difficult' - so rude!

LimberlostGirl · 04/02/2018 15:15

Duck a PP referred to a chain of well known spas as Damp Knees, the name rather amused me.

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