To think my hospital is not managing my surgery properly?

[TheCatsPaws]

Posted about my current situation before but for an overview: fourth miscarriage, second missed miscarriage. Medical management was traumatic and has left me with flashbacks so I asked for a D&C this time. I also have a history of clinical depression.

My hospital agreed but is making me wait a week. During this time I’m having panic attacks, nightmares, flashbacks and can barely get out of bed because I feel so depressed. This is because I am terrified of miscarrying naturally before the surgery.

My hospital still won’t do it earlier despite me telling them this. I have felt dangerously low yesterday and I’m not sure if I’m being unreasonable to think they’re being negligent given my history? Because if they are I want to seek advice.

Yes, you need a plan for the next few days. Life is utterly shit at times and you will have to go through this. But you are strong enough to do it.

Thanks everyone. Discharge has stopped so hopefully it was a false alarm.

How awful for you. I’m another one who had to wait a week.

I had mine when the olympics was on and remember managing to empty my head by focussing very determinedly on them..I really got quite zoned out. Can you do something like that , maybe with an easy box Set?
If your GP is worried you might OD on Diazepam would he prescribe it if your husband agreed to dole it out?

I was 20 weeks btw..

I’ll ask about if DP agrees that’s a good idea. I’m so sorry that happened to you

Thank you, I hope your week passes quickly and nothing starts before your appointment