My parents have been divorced about twenty years , my mum married a horrible controlling agressive man who I wont see, my dad married a lovely woman who does not really want to see us or have us in her house . My dad only visits to see me even though I offer weekends so he can see my two young children he only picks week days when they are at school and then only really visits to drop off biryhday or christmas gifts , his parenting style is distant at best .my mum loves my kids but travels by bus to visit when she can , but now her husband is moving her too far away for her to visit ad neither of us drive and I dont want my children in her husbands house . My friends have always been there for me as have my partners parents who are amazing . I want to invite his parents and my friends but not my parents at all is this unreasonable? . My dad also said when children get to a certain age he does not know where to look talking about me and my siblings growing up. Suppose I feel angry for their lack of help and care .