Talk me down, I want to hire a hitman!

[SoFuckingFurious]

I've NC for this, as it is definitely outing.

The ex drops the DC off with me this afternoon - DD2's broken arm in a brace and sling after a trip to A&E. She broke her arm during gymnastics on Friday evening, and he waited two whole days to tell me. Two days!!! His bloody girlfriend knew before I did.

I am fucking fuming, and the more I think about it the angrier I'm getting. I mean, he's a complete and total arsehole, but this is a new low, even for him.

Innovative ideas on how to get revenge welcome, and if I'm BU, please feel free to tell me, I can do with fuel for my anger . Also any cheeky fucker things your exes have done, so I don't feel so alone.

Every weekend? That's not a good idea op - the kids will see him as the fun parent and you'll be the drudge who nags about homework etc. They need to have downtime with you.

If he's a narc get a court order in place re contact.

My narc ex didn't tell me when dd was rushed to hospital with suspected meningitis. She was crying for me the whole time.

Oh well - I hate to not join in in the right manner.

When my DS broke his arm I did let his Dad know (he thought it was probably nothing till I took him to the hospital). But the hospital wouldn't have contacted him as I was there. It was a tiny fracture but caused quite a bit of pain.

If it had happened on XH's watch well I'd hope he might tell me - but being a bloke he might not. I might be a bit put out but I wouldn't go nuts about it. It wouldn't make any difference - the child was being cared for (and if my DS was anything to go by), there's plenty more care to be given out after that. Dads can care for kids sometimes too you know.

Can someone explain yogurt on decking?

I imagine yogurt on decking will eventually start to smell really quite dreadful, unless it's rained off.

What a knob,I'd of been fuming as well OP!

A broken arm is bloody painful and she's only young,he should have let you know as soon as he knew what was wrong.

Poor little girl I hope it heals quickly.

CF things my ex did barely ever gave me CM and yet just about every time he took them out he'd loose a hat,a coat,or ruin some of they're clothes and he was loaded and I was skint and he'd never replace anything he'd managed to lose or wreck the bloody arsehole!

Brick up his front door in the middle of the night.

I need to know about the yoghurt

Hope your DD is okay OP your ex is a wanker and I'd be rethinking arrangements.

@Mrsknackered also is it natural yogurt or strawberry?

Joking aside, hope your daughter feels better today

Thanks for all the replies - she is still in a lot of pain, but was obviously enjoying being the center of attention at school today .

Still haven't had a reply from the ex to the text I sent him saying I don't think it's on he didn't let me know.

Is the yoghurt to make the decking slippery? I have no idea .

Do you know when it's to come off?

And yes if he doesn't have pr then the hospital are at fault also and should have contacted the guardian

Yoghurt could make decking slippery (?) and then dry leaving no trace?

Just clutching at straws here, or in the case of the OPs ex clutching at thin air as he goes over on his decking!