I don't think I am, my friend does.
Guy I met at work, eventually after 8 months of flirting he asks me out. We go out. I end up paying for 85% of it. Had an ok time and agree to see him again. Invite him over in the week, but he vanishes for 3 weeks.
When he does get back in contact , he asks me out again but it's so last min that I'm always busy. I was off on holiday but said i could make time for a bit, to which he didn't reply for days and then I didn't want to- I felt the effort would be more than the fun.
In the new year, when I was back from holiday , I contacted him and tried to start s conversation, thinking maybe I had been too harsh. He cut me short and then I didn't hear from him , so I infriended him on Facebook and just forgot about it. 3 weeks after cutting me short ( he said he was going to the shop and would reply later) he messages and asks me out. But again it's last min and I've got plans. When I suggest many other days he just says he is busy. I followed my friends advice and said i wanted to meet up and am free any day this week, he just needs to say when. He ' liked ' that message and agsin I've not heard from him for 9 days. And this is the week I said I was free.
I can't be arsed at all and his lack of effort and communication is a huge turn off. My friend thinks I'm being a bit difficult. So, aibu to not want to go to the hastle of getting a baby sitter for a flakey flake of a man who still hasn't actually set up any date?