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Why don’t parents let their babies sleep outside anymore?

353 replies

Busybusybust · 14/01/2018 17:28

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All my four slept outside in the back garden during the day, suitably clothed for the time of year. I did have a big pram, but today’s prams are just as suitable. So why dont your babies sleep outside?

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TittyGolightly · 14/01/2018 17:29

Mine did! She’s only 7 too.

LaughingLlama · 14/01/2018 17:30

Mine did. 20 19 and 16.
Scottish winters with snow in the ground. They still slept out.

NewYearNewMe18 · 14/01/2018 17:30

Because some nose poke would report them to social services for abuse.

Mine slept outside, we had a large secure garden.

annandale · 14/01/2018 17:31

When youve had a baby in the family (my cousin) who died of SIDS but having recently contracted a cold sleeping outside, you get cautious. I accept that the sequence of events may not be causative.

DonnyAndVladSittingInATree · 14/01/2018 17:32

Mine did. 12 and 8.

Longdistance · 14/01/2018 17:32

My dd2 did, until I reminded dh that foxes lived out in the next garden. She did end up sleeping through at 9 weeks.

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DonnyAndVladSittingInATree · 14/01/2018 17:32

You don’t get a cold from sleeping outside surely?

jaimelannistersgoldenhand · 14/01/2018 17:33

Urban foxes lived nearby and they are extremely vicious and brazen creatures who'd often chase cats and approach dogs on leads.

OwlinaTree · 14/01/2018 17:33

Mine slept outside if we were outside and inside if we were inside. I occasionally pushed the pram round to the back garden if they feel asleep while out and I didn't want to wake them. But I wouldn't have thought oh it's nap time I'll dress you up for outside weather, put you in the park and leave you in the garden! Much easier just to pop into the cot.

MatildaTheCat · 14/01/2018 17:33

I used to put my April born baby to sleep outside in his pram . Not so much my December pfb. Old fashioned proms were about as robust as a small car which I don’t think you could say about today’s.

Bottom line is that people are afraid to do anything these days. Video monitors on 24/7 for a baby in the next room etc.

SaucyJack · 14/01/2018 17:33

Because I don't want a seagull to shit on them for starters.

TammySwansonTwo · 14/01/2018 17:34

I can't even imagine leaving mine in the garden to sleep, I don't know why not - we have a very long garden, although there is a gate at the end so there is some access I suppose. Even if not... I guess the question is, why would you leave them to sleep in the garden?!

WhooooAmI24601 · 14/01/2018 17:34

DS1 did occasionally but generally more when I was gardening. DS2 never did because he was a devil baby and simply chose never to sleep.

OwlinaTree · 14/01/2018 17:34

Pram not park!!

jaseyraex · 14/01/2018 17:34

I'd be too paranoid someone might steal them tbh!

My mum used to leave me to sleep outside our flat as she didn't want to wake me bumping me upstairs. We lived top floor. She'd ask the neighbour at the bottom to give her a ring if I woke Grin

frasier · 14/01/2018 17:34

Mine did. Unfortunate timing meant neighbours were renovating when DC was a newborn. It was like living in a drum at times. We perfected "nap walks" to the park whatever the weather.

itsbetterthanabox · 14/01/2018 17:34

Why would they sleep outside?

Dozer · 14/01/2018 17:35

Babies?

With DC1 we didn’t have a garden. With DC2 there are loads of foxes where we live and I would worry. Plus I have an anxiety disorder!

ThoughACandleBurnsNoOnesHome · 14/01/2018 17:36

Mine did over the summer months (9 months). Will only go to sleep in the cot these days though

Laiste · 14/01/2018 17:36

Never done it. Why would you? I wouldn't like to be put outside in my coat and hat to sleep.

The air outside is no different to the air inside - provided you're not a smoker in the house, your gas boiler is safe and you have a window open a bit somewhere most of the time.

FuzzyCustard · 14/01/2018 17:37

Mine (in their 30's did). Big pram, secure gardens, Yorkshire and the Midlands. It was seen as a perfectly healthy and good thing to do. No harm came to any of them.

soundsystem · 14/01/2018 17:38

Mine did/do! (3 and 11 months). Wrapped up suitably warm, and parked somewhere I can keep an eye...

JuniLoolaPalooza · 14/01/2018 17:38

It was too much of a bugger to get the pram through the house (terraced house)
Urban foxes
Super-territorial neighbourhood tomcat would've pissed on the pram had I got it out there
I liked her sleeping on me!

Lules · 14/01/2018 17:38

First I didn’t have a garden. Second sleeps outside when I’m outside walking or in the park etc (which is a lot due to active toddler) but it wouldn’t occur to me to deliberately leave him outside. I like being with him and he naps well.

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