What does this MEAN?!

[dolladollabeale]

AIBU to not understand what the FUCK this means.

So me and my ex split up and shortly after I found out I was pregnant. We remained split but stayed friends. All fine

More recently however, we've started talking all the time, it's lovely. Whenever we've seen each other the last few times, we've ended up sleeping together. (Really stupid I know to be muddling up a relationship when the baby should be #1 priority and we should be focusing simply on co-parenting but these things happen.)

So anyway I asked him last night what the fuck is actually going on with us. Like how does he feel about me? Where are we going with this? It needs to be sorted before baby is born because things are getting confusing.
His response...

Totally ignored everything I'd said and just replied this morning saying: "have a happy day you lovely and pretty girl xxx"

We never put kisses when we talk we don't say cutesie things to each other like that either we just talk about silly stuff and have a laugh.

So.. What the fuck!? Have not responded, probably just going to leave it. Can't read into it at all. AIBU to be completely Fucking confused and think that's a really shit weird response to something so serious.

Sorry for sounding like a teenager 🙄

He probably is just using you for sex. But you are 50% of that decision making equation as well - you sound quite passive. People don't just 'end up sleeping together' without making an active decision to do so.

Unfortunately you have to have a very tough talk with him and be prepared to walk away. He's taking fuck all responsibility as a father and it sounds like he fully intends to swerve any in the future under the guise of "I thought we were just fooling around."

Yep, meant for someone else. And because you text him prior to that, he accidentally sent it to you...... Cut him off. Completely. Go NC

Why not trying telling him what it means to you. What does It mean to you? Are you fantasising bring a little happy family?

Tell him.

You being physically intimate with me leads me to think you want a relationship with me as a couple with the goal of living together with our baby.

Or, I’ve been feeling particularly aroused and I may have lead you on by repeatedly instigating sex. I’m really sorry but I still only want to coparebt together and I hope to start dating soon....

I expect the talking all the time is sexting.

Motherofasurvivor

Projection and mad extrapolation on a grand scale!!!